Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters of Boston

Big Brunch Honoree Dean Cohen

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 19:26:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

Ever since I had completed my undergraduate, graduate dental education and hospital residency, I had always wanted to make a positive difference in this world. As a Jew, I have always believed in Tzedakah. Paying it forward is an important value of mine and my family’s.

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

Meeting other JBBBS/Friend2Friend matches over the years. Dan my Man and I have enjoyed going to many wonderful outings such as Passover Seders, Hanukkah Parties, and Food Truck Events.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

Dan my Man and I have always enjoyed going out to breakfast together. We love getting coffee and bagels with schmears!

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

When Dan my Man asked me to have an Aliyah at his Bar Mitzvah in 2002 and Dan having an Aliyah at my son’s B’nai Mitzvah 6 years ago!

What have you Learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

Volunteering with JBBBS for over 30 years has taught me commitment, empathy, reliability, patience, active listening skills, positive role modeling, flexibility, adaptability , enthusiasm, positivity, and optimism!

What are three words that you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Amazing, Rewarding and Enduring!

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

Do it! Being matched with Dan my Man in Friend2Friend for 30 years and being a Big Brother in LA for 8 years has been an honor!

Do you have any advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

You won’t regret it!

JBBBS is thrilled to honor four incredible JBBBS volunteers with the Chaverut Award at this year’s Big Brunch on October 26. These four volunteers truly exemplify the word chaverut which is Hebrew for friendship.

Dean Cohen is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

Big Brunch Honoree William Gittler

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 18:40:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

When I was 57, during family conversations, I realized that some of my most meaningful life experiences came from coaching my two daughters’ soccer teams. Years later, I’d run into kids I had coached and they would tell me how much they loved being part of the team. Even more, they said they carried lessons about character and life that they picked up from me. This reinforced my desire to keep giving back in a similar way. After a little research, I found JBBBS, which had the structure and support to make it possible. It felt like the perfect fit in both my personal and professional life. And the rest is history!

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

What I love most is how much both Mark and I have gotten out of this experience. Over 14 years together, we’ve shared so many activities and milestones. The regular check-ins with our match specialists have been a great support system – they gave me a chance to reflect and helped strengthen our match.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

Honestly, the conversations we’ve had are the highlight – no matter what we’re doing. But some of our favorite activities include attending Boston sports games (we even got down on the parquet floor to shoot hoops at a Celtics game!), and being “tourists” skating on the Frog Pond, riding the Duck Boats, seeing Blue Man Group, attending concerts and visiting the Museum of Science and Franklin Park Zoo. There are so many smaller but meaningful moments, too – sharing meals, talking, debating and getting to know each other!

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

One of the best memories was seeing Mark’s joy and awe when I won tickets to see Usher and we even got to meet him backstage! Mark still says it’s a memory that will last forever, and I have to agree!

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

I’ve learned never to underestimate the impact a match can have – not just on you and your Little, but on the people around you as well. Mark and I have both grown through this experience, and the ripple effect has touched his family and mine, along with friends on both sides.

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Fulfilling, joyful, unique.

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

Be open and honest through the process, ask questions, and make sure you understand what’s involved. Know that you’re going to make a difference. And remember, the JBBBS team is there for you the whole way. They’ll help you work through any bumps along the road. Once you’re ready, just go for it! The benefits you’ll give and receive are incredible.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Yes—keep an open mind, and don’t be afraid to ask for advice when you need it. Take advantage of the JBBBS group activities when you can. Trust that you were chosen for a reason, and that you bring something valuable to your match. Connect with other Bigs, learn from what they’re doing, and before long, you’ll see just how much of a difference you’re making.

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William Gittler is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

Big Brunch Honoree Yasmine Chahine

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 13:32:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I first connected with JBBBS after hosting a representative at a young professionals event at my former job. What began as an effort to inspire others to volunteer sparked something personal for me. Hearing stories from long-time matches and learning about the organization’s impact made me want to get involved and build a meaningful relationship with someone I might not have met otherwise!

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

My favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS is getting to meet new people and make new memories with my friend, Nick! I love that JBBBS offers community events that offer Nick and I a chance to meet other matches in addition to our solo-adventures.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

I have really enjoyed being in creative spaces with Nick. We are both hands-on crafty people and enjoy painting pottery or participating in JBBBS-run Scribl sessions! He is a talented artist and I love seeing what he comes up with.

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

One of my favorite memories of my JBBBS volunteer experience was this summer when Nick and I went to a Red Sox game. The Red Sox were up the entire game, energy was so high in the crowd and I will never forget the smile on Nick’s face while we sang our hearts out to Sweet Caroline.

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

Volunteering with JBBBS has changed my perspective on what friendship means and taught me that you don’t need to have a checklist of “things in common” to call someone your friend. Friendship is celebrating each other’s differences and encouraging each other to be the best version of yourselves you can be!

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

I would describe my JBBBS volunteer experience as transformational, uplifting and fun!

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

I would tell them to DO IT! I can’t imagine a world in which anyone regrets getting involved with this organization. It’s a fantastic way to meet new people from different walks of life and it will broaden your perspective on community and friendship.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

I would tell them to let go of any reservations or fears they might have in the beginning of their volunteer journey and to ask questions and lean on the incredible JBBBS staff! The JBBBS clinical match specialists are an especially supportive and caring group that are there to help you navigate and feel more comfortable building a strong foundation for your new friendship!

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Yasmine Chahine is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask her a few questions about her volunteer experience.

Big Brunch Honoree Stacey Buckley

Thu, 09 Oct 2025 14:55:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I had been looking for some volunteer work to do with my extra time during the quarantine phase of Covid, and happened to find an ad to be a Big with JBBBS. The idea of getting to be a mentor to someone in need seemed like it would be really fulfilling for me.

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

The relationship I’ve formed with my little! I love getting to spend time with her, whether we have a fun activity planned or just grab breakfast, I love hearing about her life, thoughts/feelings and accomplishments.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

We love to go to this little coffee/breakfast shop in the town where she lives, to just sit down and chat about life for a while. We also love going to the farm nearby and doing their seasonal fruit/flower picking.

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

The first time my Little asked me for a hug after our hang out. It was really sweet and showed me she felt happy and safe with me!

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

I would say I’ve learned how fulfilling it can be to be there for someone else.

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Wholesome, Fulfilling, Exciting

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

I would tell them how happy I am that I decided to volunteer and how much it has meant to me to be a Big.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Not to worry so much about planning big, exciting events, that just spending time together doing simple things can be just as exciting.

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Stacey Buckley is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask her a few questions about her volunteer experience.

Welcoming JBBBS’ New Board Chair, Evan Grossman

Mon, 29 Sep 2025 16:24:00 GMT

What first inspired you to get involved with JBBBS?

I’ve always admired the mission of mentorship and the stability and companionship it provides. JBBBS embodies that so perfectly. I had heard wonderful things about the agency, and a serendipitous professional interaction with the amazing Judy Shankman solidified my decision to get involved as a volunteer.

You’ve served both as a board member and a volunteer in the Friend 2 Friend program. How have those experiences shaped your connection to the organization?

Serving as both a volunteer in the F2F program and as a board member has been incredibly fulfilling. The hours I spend with my Friend Seth are some of the most enjoyable and rewarding parts of my month. We have fun, usually eat pizza, and simply enjoy each other’s company. Those experiences also shape the perspective I bring as a board member and now incoming board chair, reminding me to keep the mission front and center in all decisions.

As you step into the role of Board Chair, what excites you most about this opportunity?

I’m humbled and thrilled to become Board Chair this fall. There is so much to look forward to: implementing our new strategic plan, finding innovative ways to serve both the Jewish community of Eastern Massachusetts and the broader community, and making the meaningful connections that change lives.

What are your top priorities for JBBBS over the next few years?

Our mission remains the same: making a difference in the lives of children and adults with disabilities one match at a time, guided by Jewish values. My goal is to support the vital work that Lauren Korn and her talented staff do every day, and to ensure we use every resource available to serve as many participants as possible. Raising critical funds will remain essential, and we’ll continue to share our inspiring message widely to bring more supporters into our community.

How do you hope JBBBS’ programs will continue to evolve to meet the needs of our community?

I’m excited about the direction our programming team is taking through the implementation of our strategic plan. Educating volunteers and participants in Jewish culture and values is already having a remarkable impact. Being more intentionally Jewish, celebrating holidays with the greater community, and reaching more children and adults with disabilities remain guiding priorities for our staff.

When you think about the impact JBBBS has had, what makes you most proud to be involved?

What inspires me most is how deeply everyone, staff, volunteers, and board members, is connected to the mission. At board meetings, retreats, or even on simple check-in calls, the “Mission Moments” often move us to tears. Hearing how profoundly a young life can be changed, and knowing that all involved see their own lives enriched, fills me with pride to be part of JBBBS.

Outside of JBBBS, what brings you joy or inspires you in your daily life?

While I always say JBBBS is my favorite thing to talk about, I also love traveling with my wife Sarah and our children, Benjy and Ella. I play as much golf as I can while running Designers Services, a receiving and white-glove delivery business serving the Interior Design community. We also love being part of the Schechter Boston community, where I was once a student and where my kids have had the chance to learn and grow over the last five years.

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The Best Day Ever: How Emmie Found Her T1D Big Sister

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 16:15:00 GMT

By Amanda Gilchrist

Becoming part of the T1D community allowed Emmie and the rest of our family a support network connected through shared experiences. While attending a Breakthrough T1D (formally JDRF) community event, Emmie and I met Tricia Sherman. Through Tricia, we learned all about the JBBBS’ T1D Program and Emmie was thrilled about the idea of having a T1D Big Sister. Going out into the world without mom and dad constantly hovering around sounded like Emmie’s dream come true.

Due to Emmie’s T1D, she has not been able to experience the same independence as her peers. Emmie’s dad or I must be at every playdate, every birthday party, every school event. We need to manage her insulin dosing, monitor her blood sugar, and provide life-saving glucagon in the event of an emergency. We feel like it’s too much to ask friends’ families to manage; it’s a huge amount of responsibility and requires extensive training.

A T1D Big Sister would know all about blood sugar management and Emmie was so excited to have someone in her life that understood – someone that wasn’t her parents! Emmie not-so-patiently waited to be matched with a Big Sister, a grown-up who manages T1D just like her. The day Emmie met her Big Sister Ariana was the “Best Day Ever”! And every single Ariana day has continued to be the “Best Day Ever”!

Emmie loved Ariana right away. Ariana is kind, thoughtful, and so committed to being Emmie’s Big Sister. Emmie loves comparing “robots” with her, making plans for outings, and spending as much time together as possible. Ariana and Emmie have been so busy together. During the last year, they have gone to the beach, bowling, movies, lunch dates, mini-golfing, ice cream trips, picnics, library visits, T1D events, birthday parties, ropes course, Toys for Tots shopping, museum visits, tea parties, and ice skating.

Ariana has become a part of our family. Emmie and Ariana FaceTime during holidays and vacations. Ariana joined us at Emmie’s ‘family’ birthday party. She performed in Emmie’s birthday guitar show! Ariana’s mom ran the Boston Marathon, and we cheered her on in person. Emmie gave Ariana’s mom a big hug as she passed by on the course.

I wish every T1D kid had the opportunity to have an Ariana in their lives. I wish all T1D families could experience their child having a mentor that really understands the daily challenges of life with T1D. Emmie has developed such an incredible relationship with Ariana that has increased her confidence and brought joy to her life because of diabetes. We are so thankful for the JBBBS’ T1D Program for bringing Ariana into our lives and giving Emmie so many “Best Days Ever”!

Amanda lives in the Greater Boston area with her daughter Emmie. She is a proud mom of a daughter with T1D who is participating in JBBBS’ T1D program.

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Emmie was diagnosed with T1D when she was four. Our family had no history of diabetes, and we didn’t know anyone in our community with T1D. Emmie’s face lit up whenever she saw someone with the same “robots” as her (blood glucose monitors and insulin pumps). Seeing others who had T1D just like her made Emmie feel not so alone in her disease.

My nine-year-old daughter Emmie is creative, determined, enthusiastic, and resilient. Emmie is a book lover, a lacrosse player, and an artist. She also has type 1 diabetes (T1D). T1D is an incurable autoimmune disease that requires lifelong insulin therapy, blood sugar monitoring, and constant management to avoid serious and life-threatening complications.

Paying it Forward One Ticket at a Time

Thu, 29 May 2025 20:55:00 GMT

By Gabe Wasserman

Toward the end of the event, Bruce struck up a conversation with Jonathan Kraft, Bob’s son who is now the President of the Patriots. Bruce explained how we were matched through JBBBS and Jonathan graciously offered us tickets to a Red Sox game in the 600 club, which was a glass protected seating area behind home plate at Fenway Park and was a precursor to the current luxury box craze at all professional stadiums.

I remember being inspired by Jonathan’s generosity and making a pledge to myself to be similarly philanthropic if I were ever fortunate enough to be able to do so when I grew up.

Fast forward 30 years and Bruce and I are still best friends. My kids call him “Uncle Bruce” and his kids call me “Uncle Gabe.” We frequently text and talk on the phone and get together in person whenever we can. I would not be the man I am today without Bruce’s patient guidance and friendship. Bruce and I both have season tickets to the Patriots in the same section at Gillette Stadium, however, I live in New York and therefore don’t get to many games so I donate most of my tickets to JBBBS. Every time I email Lauren Korn and tell her that I have Patriots tickets that I’d like to give to a match, it brings a huge smile to my face. I think about my friendship with Bruce, the incredible impact that JBBBS has had on my life, and how in some small way, I’ve fulfilled the pledge I made to myself that night when Jonathan Kraft gave us tickets to the Red Sox game. Truly a Dor L’Dor experience.

Gabe Wasserman is a JBBBS Little alumni and remains best friends with his Big Brother Bruce Patz to this day. Gabe works in commercial real estate and lives outside New York City with his wife and two kids.

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I was matched with Bruce Patz through Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters (JBBBS) in March of 1994 when I was 11 years old and a year and a half after my father had passed away, leaving a huge void in my life.

Full Circle: From JBBBS Breakfasts to a Perfect Match

Tue, 20 May 2025 13:58:00 GMT

Hayley Samen

When I found out I was matched with Michela, I was thrilled. I couldn’t wait to meet her. From the very first moment, it was magic! As someone who tends to be introverted and enjoys when others take the lead in conversation, I was excited to find someone so full of ideas, energy, and curiosity. From collaging with vintage fashion magazines to metal detecting or hunting for sea glass at the beach, Michela enjoys an endless list of fun and creative activities. I couldn’t wait to dive in.

It quickly became clear that Michela is, frankly, way cooler than I am—and I felt lucky that she wanted to hang out with me. She lives in an artist loft with her parents, is a brilliant artist herself, and is constantly doing fun and interesting activities.

Once we started spending time together, things only got better. One especially cold and windy day this winter, when most people were huddled indoors, Michela and I had planned to search for treasures along the river. I wasn’t sure what to expect with the weather, but it ended up being an absolute blast. That day cemented something I already suspected: with Michela, anything can be fun. She brings that kind of energy.

I honestly feel like I won the lottery with this match. I’m so grateful to JBBBS for introducing me to such an incredible friend. I’m looking forward to many more adventures, lots of ice cream, and plenty of great conversations.

Hayley Samen lives in Natick. She works in her family’s business. When she is not working, you can find her hiking with her dog Luka.

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My father served as president of JBBBS for a time, so I was lucky to be connected to the program from a young age. I grew up learning from members of the community and admiring the spirit of tikkun olam JBBBS inspired volunteers giving their time, energy, and hearts to help others.

Growing up, I loved attending the JBBBS breakfasts. Eating the best bagels, lox, and cream cheese while hearing about heartwarming stories of friendship filled me with joy—and made me dream of the day I’d have a match of my own. I still remember the moment I learned about the Friend2Friend program—I knew instantly that it was the perfect fit for me. I couldn’t wait to be a friend.

The M.A.G.I.C. of Therapy Dogs

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 15:02:00 GMT

By Kelsey Romaniak

This initial event idea was met with skepticism and hesitation- ‘what about allergies’ or fears of dogs or something else? Extensive time and energy was spent weighing the pros and cons of this endeavor. I kept thinking back to a clinical study that found that petting animals releases hormones that elevate our mood and emotional well-being and support social engagement. I was determined to make this dream a reality!

According to the American Kennel Club, “A therapy dog is a dog who volunteers with their pet parent to provide comfort and support to people.” After a long search for the right fit, two calm, gentle, and loving therapy dogs were selected. Their handlers were debriefed on the needs of our program and 1 one dog would come each night. M.A.G.I.C. matches were invited to meet, pet, and love on these dogs in a separate room from the crafting. Matches were also encouraged to remain crafting, should meeting the dogs not feel right to them. Some were so excited they could barely focus, while others were uninterested, and some– nervous. Those nervous about the opportunity were supported by Friend 2 Friend (F2F) staff around what to expect, encouraged to ask questions, and then escorted to meet the dog, if they chose to do so.

One specific match was very unsure about meeting the dog. They had always been taught that dogs were strictly for guarding homes, sharing “dogs have unpredictable and dangerous behavior.” . After a discussion between the two of them and with reassurance from F2F staff and fellow matches, they decided to just look at the dog. After witnessing the dog’s calm demeanor, they took the next step. They asked the handler questions about the dog- her name, interests, and training while the handler was reading their verbal and nonverbal cues. With some big breaths and a timid smile, the participant took a few slow, cautious steps toward the dog. He looked back at his Friend for comfort and approval, to which he received a gentle nod and smile. That confidence allowed him to open his hand to greet the dog- and the dog gently licked it. The immense smile that filled his face from those dog kisses, was beyond heartwarming to witness. He and the dog then made eye contact and were emotionally connected. He could tell he was safe, and the dog was not going to hurt him, contrary to what he had been conditioned to believe. He swiftly began petting the dog and smiling ear to ear- his anxiety quickly fading away. He even asked to take a photo with the dog so he could show his family. This experience, which for many matches was a blip in their day, was transformative for this participant. This positive interaction with a therapy dog allowed this young man to overcome a fear- a true, life-changing experience!

The feedback from M.A.G.I.C. matches about the therapy dog has been overwhelmingly positive. Many are even asking for future visits with the dogs! I am infinitely grateful for the dog and handler pairs who graciously visited our M.A.G.I.C. events and gave our matches such memorable experiences.

Kelsey has been a Clinical Match Specialist with the Friend 2 Friend (F2F) program for nearly 3 years. She has a B.A. from Marist College and an M.S.W. from Simmons University. The highlights of working with F2F are planning M.A.G.I.C. events and meeting new people! She lives on the south shore with her husband, young daughter and French bulldog. In her free time she enjoys traveling, cooking, gardening, being in nature, and spending time with her family.

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“I pet a dog for the first time tonight!”

This quote from a M.A.G.I.C. (Monthly Activity Group in the Community) participant joyfully replays in my head. At our November M.A.G.I.C. event: Giving Back to help Angell Animal Adoption Center, our Friend 2 Friend matches made toys and blankets for the animals awaiting their forever homes. Over the course of two Wednesday nights, our matches constructed 75 cat toys and 18 blankets to donate! Truly amazing! In conjunction with the craft projects, our matches had the opportunity to meet a certified and trained therapy dog.

Winter Boots in the Spring

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 13:58:00 GMT

By Richard Paisner

As we both got older, our time together became less about the experience and more about the time together. Andy was the first to learn about my pending engagement to Sarah, and I told him about the ring I had bought. Even though he was only 8 years old at the time, he showed incredible excitement for me. In fact, Andy and his mom Joyce danced with me and Sarah at our wedding in Milwaukee.

In the years that followed, he and I supported one another during times of loss and difficulty. I was diagnosed with a brain tumor not long after my wedding, and Andy and Joyce came to my bedside to visit me and try to cheer me up. Andy told me as if we were sitting in a bagel shop, “You’ll feel better soon, Rich; we have to get back to our shop to try the new bagel.” His positivity during my lowest moments helped me push back to my old ways and our Sunday routine, bagels, and talking.

Many years later, the roles had reversed. Sarah and I danced with Andy and his wife Kendall at his wedding. I couldn’t help but think that the decades had flown by. All the conversations and fun had passed in the blink of an eye. I realized what I thought would happen after our meeting in the JCC hadn’t happened. I had planned to teach my little brother about dating, sports, and life, but what really happened was that Andy taught me how to be a better person. If I could have told my 24-year-old self that this would have happened, I would never have believed it.

It’s funny. As I sat down to start writing, I looked down at my feet, and who would have thought I was wearing winter boots on a beautiful day? I guess it is a thing.

Rich Paisner runs a family dental and medical supply business on the South Shore. He volunteered with JBBBS soon after graduating college and hasn’t looked back since. Rich is married with three daughters and hopes that they will one day volunteer with JBBBS and grow up with a Little Brother or Sister like he has.

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Andy and I were matched and started seeing each other every Sunday. At first, we would plan bigger events: bowling, concerts, video games, and the biggest of them all, the Hot Dog Safari, an event filled with dozens and dozens of different foods for us to eat and try. We made matching shirts and walked the event, trying food from all over.

“Winter boots in the spring, is that a thing?” I asked my then-girlfriend, now wife, Sarah, as we sat at a restaurant. I had just met this 7-year-old boy, Andy, who JBBBS thought I would click with at the JCC in Newton. I was 24 years old and so nervous I asked Sarah to meet me right after my meeting. I told her he was a polite little kid, and we talked and hung out as we got to know each other. Despite the great time together, I couldn’t get over the boots. It was a beautiful day, why the need for boots?

“ I had planned to teach my little brother about dating, sports, and life, but what really happened was that Andy taught me how to be a better person “.

Match Spotlight: Niall and Jake

Wed, 12 Mar 2025 15:52:00 GMT

Niall:

My favorite activity to do with Jake is going out for lunch and listening to a good variety of music in his playlists.

My favorite JBBBS memory would be going to a bowling event 2 years ago.

My advice for people who are just getting started on their JBBBS journey would be to get creative about things that you can do together and be open to trying new things.

What I have learned from being in Friend 2 Friend is learning to get along with a new friend.

My favorite part of being involved with JBBBS is being an ambassador.

Jake:

My favorite activity I do with my match Niall is going to play mini golf and grab some lunch somewhere after! Both of us love burgers so we enjoy going to Mick Morgan’s or Not Your Average Joe’s.

My favorite JBBBS memory is the first time Niall and I met at the bowling event! We clicked instantly.

My advice for people who are just getting started on their JBBBS journey is to do introduce yourselves and find a common interest! After finding the common interest, your relationship will flourish.

My favorite part of being involved in JBBBS is being a role model, someone to rely on, and a friend for Niall. Niall and I have become so close. We text during the week about new song releases, movies coming out, and just checking in, too! It is so rewarding because Niall now has a forever friend and so do I!

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Niall and Jake have been matched in F2F for over two years. Together, they enjoy bowling, eating out, going to the movies, and miniature golfing. One of the highlights of their outings is rocking out to a playlist that Jake curates for their rides, based on songs that Niall requests in advance. Niall is thrilled to be F2F’s latest ambassador.

Match Spotlight: Catherine and Nia

Wed, 12 Mar 2025 15:33:00 GMT

My favorite activity to do with my match is: a glass blowing class. It was such a cool experience and not something I would have tried myself. We went for it and had an awesome time.

My advice to people who are just getting started on their JBBBS journey : Let things happen organically, which takes time. Quality relationships are built slowly and patiently. Starting as a volunteer, you think you’re going to have this immediate relationship but it’s a totally different experience to really get to know and bond with a child. Our strong relationship happened over time, and it worked out so well.

What have I learned from being matched: I learned so much from being matched. Nia gave me a new perspective on life and helped me prepare to be a parent in today’s world.

What is your favorite part of being involved with JBBBS: It’s a two-way street! You think you’re going to be the one to impact and teach them, but it’s usually the other way around. The benefit of a mentor is that you also grow as a person working with a young person.

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Catherine (Big) and Nia (Little) recently officially graduated from our Children’s program upon Nia’s 22nd birthday. They were first matched in February 2017 when Nia was 14 years old. Since being matched, Nia has graduated high school and gone off to college and Catherine has become a mother. Today, Nia is in her final semester at college and Catherine has just welcomed her third child! Catherine took the time to answer the questions below:

BIG Brunch Honoree Victor Nussbaum

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 16:34:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I was looking for a connection to the Boston Jewish community and JBBBS seemed like it might be a good fit for me.

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

It is amazing that after four decades of volunteering as a Big, I am always excited about the next time I get together with my little.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

There are many “favorites”. The throwback video game parlor, with its pinball machines, skee ball, Ms. Pacman, Nintendo games and more is probably at the top of the list. Whale watching, hikes, cruising the Natick Mall, birthday celebration meals, and snow tubing are also so much fun.

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

The overall favorite is recalling the so many wonderful conversations I have with my littles. I now know many jokes, so many details about the latest online games, and gained valuable insights into the joys and challenges in life that Littles experience.

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

I learned that Littles have remarkable resilience and my life has been enhanced by volunteering.

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Joyful, friendship, fun!

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

Volunteering at JBBBS is the most rewarding volunteer experience that will change lives. Not only will you make a positive impact in the life of your match, but your own life will also be enriched beyond any measure you may anticipate.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Get ready to be supported by a very caring group of JBBBS professionals, have fun, and have more friends in your life.

Victor Nussbaum is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

JBBBS is thrilled to honor four incredible JBBBS volunteers with the Chaverut Award at this year’s Big Brunch on November 17. These four volunteers truly exemplify the word chaverut which is Hebrew for friendship.

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BIG Brunch Honoree Dennis Topakov

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:56:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

When I went to school at UMass Amherst I had the opportunity to be the head coach of the Amherst JV Baseball team. It was a wonderful experience because I was thrown into the fire of managing 16 teenage boys. We had a great season and built some really great relationships. Some of the parents had written me letters towards the end of the year with disclosing certain problems they were having with their young men, whether it be grades, sports or outside of school and had asked me to speak to them because they felt their sons would listen to them. This was a huge surprise to me and the first time I felt that my voice mattered and could potentially steer someone in the right direction. Fast forward several years, I felt like I had begun having my feet underneath me in this world and I couldn’t help but shake this feeling of wanting to help. Specifically, wanting to help someone like a younger me because I vividly remembered being very lost in this world as a young man.

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

My favorite detail is my match, Danny. Him and I have such a great connection that I sometimes think he’s my genuine brother above anything else. I look forward to hanging out with him and it’s helped that he’s followed in my footsteps going to BC High. I also enjoy the checkups that JBBBS provides. I think it is a great temperature check on the connection and way to make sure that both parties are getting the most out of the interaction.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

My favorite activities are watching various new movies that come out in theaters, going to sporting events like the Bruins and Red Sox and, something that has gained a lot of steam recently, rating nachos at new restaurants when we grab lunch or dinner. Nothing has gotten a 9.0 yet, with 8.7 being the highest!!

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

My favorite memories are my rides home with Danny, bringing him back to his mom. During these rides we typically talk about life, school, current events. But mostly we talk about life. Danny sometimes asks me philosophical questions about life, about getting into college, about homework, etc and I feel lucky in the sense that Danny and I had similar upbringings which allows me to really understand where his question is coming from. It genuinely brings me the most joy knowing that he feels I can answer a question that he himself has not found an answer to.

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

I have learned patience, understanding, and the ability to appreciate that even though the world happens a certain way, each individual person views that world in their own carefully curated prism.

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Fulfilling, reflective, inspiring.

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

Volunteering is really easy. I genuinely feel it is not difficult because as a mentor you inherently have SO much to give just by showing up and if you decide to plan something special, that’s an added bonus! What is actually the difficult part is are you ready to take on the ownership within yourself of being a mentor. I believe there is no better gift than the opportunity to help shape a young mind but that means working on your own biases, working on yourself to make sure that you are showing up as your best self to the person who is looking up to you.

Dennis joined JBBBS as a Big in 2019 and has been best friends with his Little Danny for over 4 years! Dennis has been outspoken about how being a Big has done more for him as a person than he could have ever imagined. Dennis immigrated to America with his mother from Siberia when he was 8 years old and they settled in Dorchester. He attended Boston College High School then continued his education at UMass Amherst. He now works at Arrowstreet Capital with their institutional clients.

Dennis Topakov is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

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BIG Brunch Honoree Laura Vardon

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 16:02:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I think, like a lot of people, the pandemic and lockdown made me reassess my priorities. I hadn’t been doing any volunteering recently, which led me to volunteermatch.org . I indicated interest in an opportunity to match with an adult “buddy”, and the next thing I knew (after applications, interviews, references, background checks, etc.) Bonnie and I were matched.

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

JBBBS has been a great organization with which to volunteer. The team at JBBBS has been unfailingly helpful and supportive.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

Bonnie and I like to go to the Museum of Science and look at the dinosaur exhibits, watch the live animal experiences and the 4-D movies. We also enjoy the zoo and the aquarium.

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

The first time we went to see Disney on Ice and the look of joy on Bonnie’s face.

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

I’ve learned to slow down and enjoy the experience, that all questions are valid, and that one day a month can make a big difference in someone’s life.

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Rewarding, fulfilling, fun.

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

I would say that the joy you get out of volunteering with JBBBS is exponentially more than the time you put in.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Don’t be afraid to ask questions and lean on the staff for advice. The team is here to help you maximize the experiences of you and your buddy.

Since April 2021, Laura has been an enthusiastic Friend 2 Friend volunteer, where she has been matched with her Friend Bonnie. Born and raised in Connecticut, Laura is one of four children and a doting aunt. After 25 years in the hospitality field, Laura is currently an executive assistant at Harvard Medical School, where she has enjoyed learning more about global health and social medicine.

Laura Vardon is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask her a few questions about her volunteer experience.

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BIG Brunch Honoree Sabrina Corsetti

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 15:14:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I heard about Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters through MIT GradHillel, and it sounded like an amazing opportunity to get involved in the Boston community! I then talked with a few members of the JBBBS staff and was blown away by how cheerful, positive, and welcoming they were. I loved their descriptions of MAGIC as an opportunity to make a positive difference just by making friends, and from there it was an easy decision!

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

I love getting to spend time with the whole MAGIC community! Going out for events is an opportunity to break out of my usual bubble and spend time with an amazing group of people from all over the Boston area, all while doing a variety of fun activities!

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

Danielle makes every activity enjoyable, with how sunny and outgoing she is! Although, some favorite activities are anything that makes it easy to socialize with others. Walks around Coolidge Corner and freeform arts and crafts events are especially great!

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

A recent favorite was doing accessible martial arts, hosted by Easterseals. The whole MAGIC event was a blast, since it got people moving around and often trying something new! I also found out through that event that Danielle is a big fan of Easterseals and had been to a bunch of their events! Another highlight of this past year was volunteering for Yom Sport. This summer was my first Yom Sport, and now I’m already planning to be around for the next one! That was an incredible community event.

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

Getting involved in JBBBS has helped me get a lot more outgoing and comfortable with meeting new people. It might sound cliche, but it’s truly taught me that if you go out into the world as yourself, it can actually be easy to make friends with the right people (and this is coming from someone who’s usually pretty shy)!

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Warmhearted, uplifting, fulfilling

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

Don’t think twice! Volunteering with JBBBS has been one of the single biggest highlights of my time in Boston. You’ll get to make a huge group of friends just by attending great events, trying new activities, and being yourself. It’s absolutely worth a try!

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Just jump in and enjoy yourself! If you show up enthusiastic and ready to make friends, you’ll fit in right away. You’ll be shocked by just how much of an impact JBBBS can have on your life in just a short time.

Sabrina joined JBBBS as a Friend 2 Friend volunteer in late 2022 and has loved getting to be a part of such a vibrant and kindhearted community! She has especially enjoyed getting to know her Friend 2 Friend match, Danielle. Sabrina studied Physics and Mathematics at the University of Michigan. After graduating, Sabrina moved to Massachusetts, where she is now pursuing her PhD in Electrical Engineering and Computer Science at MIT as a member of the Photonics and Electronics Research Group.

Sabrina Corsetti is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask her a few questions about her volunteer experience.

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A Message from Next CEO, Lauren Korn

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 17:19:00 GMT

As some of you know, we are finishing up our year-long strategic plan work. As co-leader of this process, I am thrilled to turn our strategy into a reality as the agency’s next leader. I look forward to leading the organization and working collaboratively with the incredible JBBBS staff, Boards, volunteers and community partners to further advance our mission. I am so incredibly grateful for this opportunity.

Mentorship has had a profound impact on my life, and I would not be here today without it. Navigating the working world as a mother comes with its own challenges. I had incredible mentors who helped me find my on-ramp back into the working world. They supported, encouraged and dared me to dream BIG. I am forever grateful to these people and my mission is to connect more people with their lifelong mentors and friends who will inspire and uplift them along their journeys.

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As a proud Jewish woman and mother of three Jewish teenagers, the oldest of whom is off to college in the fall, I am keenly aware of the moment we are in now. 105 years ago, JBBBS was founded to support Jewish children at a time when Jews were excluded from social services, and we continue this mission today. I will be proud to lead JBBBS with a capital J.

Over my last 6 years at JBBBS, I have had the privilege to get to know many of our matches. I have seen first-hand the incredible impact our programs have on everyone involved. I am humbled to have been chosen to lead this amazing agency forward and am excited for what is to come.

Top 5 Favorite Days of the Year

Tue, 28 May 2024 13:58:00 GMT

By Marc Rosenblum

Fast forward many years later and Yom Sport is now one of my top 5 favorite days of the year even though I am not sure what the other 4 days are. I leave every Yom Sport year feeling even more alive knowing that we are making a difference in the lives of the participants. The smiles on the athletes’ faces are amazing!  They are having so much fun at the event and everyone looks forward to returning year after year. 

Yom Sport has become a family affair as I met my wife, Belinda, at Yom Sport when she was the co-chair from CJP. My 8-year-old daughter, Becca, and 10-year-old son, Seth, now attend every year with me. My 24-year-old daughter, Olivia, also attends regularly. They love seeing “daddy” in action and understand why volunteering is so important. To give you an idea of how connected we feel, Seth was born 3 days before Yom Sport and my wife and I went directly from the hospital to Yom Sport to share our bundle of joy with our Yom Sport family!

As I think ahead, I have 3 wishes for Yom Sport: 

That this event never ends.
That Becca one day runs Yom Sport.
That my step-sister Barbie can participate in Yom Sport.

If you are reading this, I encourage you to sign up and volunteer for Yom Sport. I feel confident that your life will change for the better. 

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My life changed forever when my good friend asked me to attend Jewish Big Brother Big Sister’s Yom Sport event which provides adults with disabilities throughout Greater Boston with an opportunity to come together and participate in a variety of sporting events.

When she asked me to attend many years ago, I had a lot of excuses not to go. I was worried about attending and even while driving there, I had thoughts of turning the car around and going home. My good friend knew that Yom Sport would be particularly meaningful as I have an older step-sister, Barbie, with Down Syndrome and the impact she has had on my life.

Marc Rosenblum is originally from Long Island, NY, currently lives in Littleton, MA and is the father of 3 kids (24, 10 and 8) and has been married for 13 years. He has volunteered in many facets with JBBBS over the last 17 years. He began with being a Big Brother for 5 years. He also participated in the Friend 2 Friend program and is still in contact with his Friend regularly. Marc also rode and raised money as part of the Rodman Ride for Kids. Lastly, his participation with Yom Sport has been life changing. Marc has run the Boston Marathon from 2013 to 2023 and has raised over 150K dollars for Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. He is preparing for his first ½ Ironman and full Ironman in 2024.

Life is Better with Ice Cream: Scooping it Forward from Little to Big

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 19:45:00 GMT

By Isaac Silberberg

I still have a photo of that meal in the diner. I cherish every memory I can. My father passed away from cancer when I was five. Like so many Littles at JBBBS, I had no idea there was an organization that would be able to step in and provide me with an important mentoring relationship in my life when I so desperately needed one. In fact, I had two Bigs through JBBBS as a kid.

My experience as a Little was exactly what I needed. Playing frisbee and football on the esplanade. I remember watching the Patriots-Steelers AFC championship game in 2002 with my Big and a bunch of his friends, and the euphoria of people honking their car horns across Boston in the aftermath. Building Lego cities and playing in arcades together. Plenty of JP Licks trips. Though they live on the West Coast now, I still text both my Bigs, over 20 years later.

As an adult, I knew I wanted to come full circle, so I signed up to be a Big. Being a Big was everything I hoped for and more. Volunteering with JBBBS makes a massive difference in the life of a young person.

To anyone considering becoming a Big, I say: go for it. Signing up to be a Big helps JBBBS make more matches, but also helps make better matches. Just like ice cream to delight a large group of people, many flavors are needed. Play sports? Prefer board games? An avid bird-watcher? Museum aficionado? Just want to take walks, talk, and explore a new ice cream place every month? Somewhere, closer than you think, a Little needs you.

I’m so thankful I have been able to experience JBBBS as a Little and a Big. I hope you join me during National Volunteer Month. You don’t need mentorship to live, but you also don’t need ice cream. Life is a lot better with both.

Isaac Silberberg is a former Little Brother and Big Brother with Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters. He grew up in Brookline. He holds degrees from MIT and MIT Sloan School of Management. Isaac has worked at startups and on political campaigns. He served as a JBBBS Young Professionals Ambassador and served on the Gala Committee for Gala ‘99. He currently works at Boston Consulting Group.

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I’m Isaac Silberberg, and today I want to encourage you to sign up as a Big during April, which is National Volunteer Month. I’ve been lucky to experience the transformative power of mentorship through the Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters (JBBBS) program as both a mentee and a mentor.

A bit about my life outside of JBBBS: I grew up around Boston. I’m a big Boston sports fan. I’ve worked in companies of all sizes. I love to ski and cook, but not at the same time! I’m a foodie with a massive sweet tooth and my favorite dessert is ice cream.

An early memory I have is sitting down in a diner with my mom and dad, and somehow convincing my dad to order dessert first. When the server asked what I’d be eating, I giggled and asked for an ice cream sundae. When she sighed and looked to my dad, as if to ask “and what will your child actually be eating?” my dad grinned and joined in, exclaiming “I’ll have one, too!”

30 Years of Commitment, Impact and Meaning

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 17:06:00 GMT

By Jeffrey Savit

For someone like me who has an attention span of about 30 minutes, 30 years is an incredibly long time to stay focused and committed. But remarkably, my focus and commitment at JBBBS have never wavered during my three decades at JBBBS.

Thirty years ago, I applied to become a Big Brother at JBBBS, but I was asked to join the Board of Directors instead given that I was about to become a new father. And how fortunate I was to have joined the JBBBS Board. I was able to experience first-hand the joy and magic of mentorship, friendship and connection between the Bigs and Littles and the Friends with their Friends at the various JBBBS Children’s and Adult community events and holiday celebrations. On the Board, I learned about the necessity of raising funds to benefit the wonderful JBBBS matches and programming and took such great pleasure in the agency’s ability to provide significant camping and college scholarship funding to our Littles. JBBBS became part of my fabric. In time, I became chair of the JBBBS Board of Directors, and then chair of the JBBBS Endowment Board.

Not surprisingly, my great fortune in being intimately involved with JBBBS prompted me to abandon my legal career in order to become a social worker. I only wanted to provide professional support and acumen to those less fortunate than I. So how lucky was I five years ago when I was asked to become the CEO of JBBBS as the agency celebrated its 100th anniversary. The last five years have proven to be the pinnacle of my professional career. And gratifyingly, I proudly became a volunteer Friend in our Friend 2 Friend Program 3 (ok not 30) years ago!!!

I am extremely proud that during my 30-year tenure with JBBBS, we have doubled the number of matches and families we serve and tripled our revenues and operating budget. And there are not too many people anywhere who have had the unparalleled great fortune to be the lay, professional leader, and volunteer for a remarkable social service non-profit agency.

Please join my wonderful family and me in celebrating our incredibly special JBBBS 30th anniversary at our Big Bash on May 2nd at the Artists for Humanity in South Boston. Heartfelt thanks to everyone who has supported JBBBS and me, and made my JBBBS journey so meaningful and inspiring, during the past 30 years.

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30 is a terrifically significant number for me. You see, my mother was 30 years old when she gave birth to me. I met my wife Lori when I was 30 years old. My brother Michael and I created a leukemia research foundation in memory of our beloved father almost 30 years ago. My older daughter Mollie is turning 30 later this spring and is newly engaged to my 30-year-old son-in-law to be Derek. My younger daughter Chloe and I text each other at least 30 times each day. And unbelievably, I am celebrating my 30th anniversary with the most magnificent social service agency on the planet, Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Boston (JBBBS).

Jeffrey Savit has been the President and CEO of Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Boston (JBBBS) since 2019. Prior to leading JBBBS, Jeffrey proudly served as the initial President and CEO of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, the Dwares JCC and the Jewish Federation Foundation of Rhode Island, then as Chief Development Officer of Prizmah Center for Jewish Day Schools. Before becoming a Jewish communal professional, Jefrey practiced trust and estate law for 18 years, and then worked as a geriatric social worker for Hebrew Senior Life for four years. Jefrey also has extensive experience as a lay leader, having served as the board chair of JBBBS, the JBBBS Endowment Fund, and JCC Greater Boston. He also volunteered for several years as a trustee on the boards of the Miriam Hospital in Providence, RI and the Home and Hospice Care of RI. Jeffrey was born in New Bedford, MA, and attended Phillips Academy, Harvard College, Boston College Law School, and Boston College Graduate School of Social Work.

Wearing Two Hats: JBBBS Volunteer and Staff Member

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 15:50:00 GMT

Zachary Malenfant

I remember the first time I got to see the impact first-hand was when I worked a weekend event at a New England Revolution game with some of the Children Program matches. I remember looking through the stands and seeing some of the Bigs and Littles cheering for the team, some seemed oblivious to the game chatting with each other, and some were nowhere to be seen, hanging out by the food vendors but everyone was having a great time. It was really inspiring, and I remember thinking to myself for the first time that maybe I could be a Big Brother. So, I did. I was matched for 1 year with my Little Brother.

After my Little moved to another state, I knew I wanted to continue volunteering with JBBBS but was looking for something that better fit my busy schedule. I applied to be part of the MAGIC program in Friend 2 Friend and have been matched with my Friend, also named Zack, for over 4 years.

When I think back on that first day working for JBBBS, I can’t believe how right I was that this place was going to be different. It has given me a great career where I can truly be proud of the work that I do, an amazing group of passionate coworkers that work so hard to support our matches, and volunteering opportunities that have had an incredible impact on my life.

Zack Malenfant has worked for Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters since January 2017. He has a Bachelor of Science from Arizona State University. When he is not working and volunteering, Zack enjoys spending time in the outdoors with his wife and dog. He is often found camping, hiking, or fishing.

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On my first day working at Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters, I quickly realized that this was going to be different from any company I had worked for before. Right away, I could feel the pride from my new coworkers regarding the impact we were having in the community. The world of non-profit fundraising was new to me so I got to know my coworkers very quickly as I was constantly knocking on their door to sheepishly ask questions. Each person really took the time to teach me the ropes with kindness and compassion and I quickly found my groove at JBBBS. To this day, that feeling of camaraderie is intact and I now, proudly, pay forward that spirit of compassion to any new faces that come through our door.

We were matched shortly before the pandemic and only got to see each other in person a handful of times before we went into lockdown. It didn’t slow our friendship down at all though. Instead of meeting with the group in person, we would talk on the phone a couple of times a month. We would talk about what was going on in our lives; our pets, our relationships, our jobs, and we really got to know each other. Interestingly, I was talking to him more consistently than most of my other friends at that time. Once we were able to meet in person again it only got easier. We would show up at prearranged MAGIC (Monthly Activity Group In the Community) events and just hang out. I now not only look forward to seeing Zack at the events, but also all of our other friends in our MAGIC group, too!

The Joy of Mentoring in the JBBBS College Mentoring Program

Tue, 23 Jan 2024 17:22:00 GMT

by Janet Altman

Gabi, my first student, was a junior in high school when we initially matched. Gabi is now in her first year of college and doing well. Isatu, my second student, is a current senior in high school and recently completed the rigorous college application process.

I have enjoyable conversations with both young women about their lives. In addition, they share their education and career goals with me. My mentees’ maturity, independence, resilience, and aspirations for their futures have impressed me. The get-togethers I have with each student, primarily revolve around eating at restaurants, zoom calls with college counselors, and visiting colleges. I am thrilled that Gabi and Isatu are excited about their college journey.

Jenny George, the Director of the College Mentoring Program, and a clinical social worker provides superior guidance to all involved. Jenny and JBBBS create a robust and caring environment paired with a realistic approach to the college process. As a mentor, I always feel supported.

I passionately recommend becoming a mentor in this profoundly effective program. Your volunteer efforts will ensure that college educational opportunities are a reality for deserving students.

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My goal as a mentor is to build a trusting relationship with my mentees that empowers them to succeed. My role is to guide and support my mentees throughout the college application process as well as the early years of college. I strive to be an active listener and provide a judgment-free zone.

Mentoring students through the JBBBS college mentoring program brings me much joy. This program provides a rewarding mentoring experience with economically disadvantaged first-generation students who aspire to attend and complete college. I am invigorated by the fortitude of my two student matches.

Why did I decide to become a mentor? Upon retirement as an Executive Director in the nonprofit educational field, I sought volunteer opportunities in the college mentoring space. The mission of the JBBBS college mentoring program compelled me to volunteer. JBBBS offers a gold standard of services to deserving and qualified high school students who want to pursue and complete a post-secondary education. The services offered by JBBBS include, college and financial counseling, mentoring, social work support, and monetary scholarships.

Janet Altman enjoys spending time with her husband David, her two adult daughters (Jennifer and Rachel), extended family, and friends. She currently serves on the board of the Temple Shalom Sisterhood and Lakewood Tennis Club. You can often find her on the tennis court, taking walks, kayaking, drinking coffee in a cafe, or reading a book.

Big Brunch Honoree Christine Ngigi

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 22:37:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I was looking for an opportunity to give back to the community and when I saw the JBBBS flier on VolunteerMatch website, I felt like it’s just what I was looking for with my erratic schedule! After applying, Tania Gray, Director of Community Engagement and Outreach and Erin Walker, the Clinical Match Specialist at the time, promptly reached out to me and explained everything I needed to know with a lot of detail, respect and professionalism. I felt welcome and valued; I then knew I was in the right place.

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

As much as I am giving back, I am receiving a lot in the process! I get opportunities to participate in forums and events that allow me to learn so much as a person and appreciate other religious faith/observations beyond my Catholic faith; all of these experiences make me a better person.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

Anything that I get to do with my Friend is always fun because we derive so much joy in the simplest things but so far the trophy goes to Yom Sport Day!

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Selflessness, fulfilling and fun

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

The matching process was thorough and thoughtful, and I appreciate it more now as I spend time with my Friend because she is simply perfect for me! We complement each other in many ways, and this was made possible by the diligence put in by the Clinical Match Specialists to incorporate my personal preferences. So, it’s important for volunteers to be clear and honest about their interests and hopes.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Enjoy the experience with an open mind. The Clinical Match Specialists are very resourceful and helpful so feel free to approach them for any questions, clarifications, concerns or challenges. It is ok not to know everything.

Christine Ngigi has been a dedicated Friend 2 Friend volunteer with JBBBS for 2 years. She plays a crucial role on the Yom Sport Committee and expresses gratitude for the opportunity to create meaningful difference in others lives. Christine enjoys the outdoors and quality time with loved ones; she holds an MBA in Strategic Management, has 5 years experience in Human Resources and 3 in Biotechnology.

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Christine Ngigi is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask her a few questions about her volunteer experience.

JBBBS is thrilled to honor four incredible JBBBS volunteers with the Chaverut Award at this year’s Big Brunch on November 19. These four volunteers truly exemplify the word chaverut which is Hebrew for friendship.

Giving comes in many forms. Making time to create memories that last a lifetime is priceless.

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

My favorite memory was when my Friend introduced me to Ceramica Paint Studio. I had never been there before and it was a beautiful moment where we got to be fully engaged on our outing painting while doing small talk. We both made and took home very cute artwork!

What have you learned from volunteering with JBBBS?

Big Brunch Honoree Ann Trehub

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 19:10:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

When I was growing up, a member of my extended family was a mentor to me. She introduced me to experiences and opportunities I might not otherwise have had, and I wanted to do the same for a child.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

I really enjoy arts and crafts with my Little, because she is so good at it and enjoys it so much. It’s fun to watch her work on a project like making jewelry, painting pottery, or decorating baseball caps because she enjoys it so much, does everything so carefully, and is so proud of the results. And we also love going for ice cream!

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

They should definitely do it! It’s brought me so much enjoyment and satisfaction; it’s probably the most worthwhile thing I’ve ever done. Although there can be challenges, persistence pays off.

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

Be patient. Try to remember that you’re a completely unfamiliar adult coming into their (probably unstable) world and it may take time for them to trust you and feel comfortable with you.

Ann Trehub decided to become a volunteer with JBBBS after her retirement. She has been matched in our Children’s Program for the past 7 years and describes her experience as “enjoyable and fulfilling.” Before volunteering, Ann practiced law in MetroWest for over 30 years.

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Ann Trehub is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask her a few questions about her volunteer experience.

Big Brunch Honoree Marty Packer

Thu, 09 Nov 2023 20:03:00 GMT

Why did you decide to first volunteer with JBBBS?

I first volunteered in the Children’s Program. I wanted a chance to give back to the community. I subsequently transitioned and started volunteering with the Friend to Friend program.

What are three words you would use to describe your JBBBS volunteer experience?

Compassion, learning and enjoyment

What is your favorite memory of your JBBBS volunteer experience?

My favorite JBBBS volunteer memories are the holiday programs that I share with my match. We both look forward to the Passover Sedar and the Chanukah party. The Sedar has a service plus good food. The Chanukah party has a DJ plus a dinner. A gift swap is also part of the event. I enjoy both events and like to see my match happy and enjoying himself.

Marty Packer started volunteering with JBBBS in 1989 in the Children’s Program. After a few years, he then became a volunteer with Friend 2 Friend. He and his current Friend have been matched for over 16 years. Professionally, Marty was a pharmacist for 53 years and is currently a substitute teacher.

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Dean Cohen is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

Marty Packer is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

You should do it. Volunteering with JBBBS has been both an educational and a meaningful experience. You gain trust of another human being.

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

Do you have advice for someone who is just starting out their volunteer journey with JBBBS?

When you start out it is a learning experience for both the volunteer and the participant. Be patient. Take it one visit at a time. Take time to get to know one another. I have no doubt you will get a lot out of the match.

Big Brunch Honoree David O’Neil

Wed, 08 Nov 2023 18:09:00 GMT

What is your favorite thing about volunteering with JBBBS?

As a volunteer, I feel like I’m having a truly positive impact on the life of a young person. It doesn’t take a lot—just being present and listening—but it makes a big difference.

What are your favorite activities to do with your match?

I like going for a walk. It’s a great chance to get away from a digital screen, be in the outdoors, and talk. It’s kind of a metaphor for the whole volunteering experience. You are just walking side-by-side with your Little on this one section of their life journey.

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering with JBBBS?

It’s easier than you think, especially with the support of the JBBBS staff. My Clinical Match Specialist and I check in regularly and she suggests activities, listens to how things are going, validates my experiences with my Little, and offers lots of support. I’m not doing it alone. We’re a team.

David O’Neil has been a volunteer since 2015 serving in both the Children’s Program and College Mentoring Program. Professionally, David is a memoir writer working with seniors to create a lasting legacy for their families. David lives in the Greater Boston area with his wife Cheryl.

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David O’Neil is one of this year’s honorees and we had the pleasure to recently ask him a few questions about his volunteer experience.

An Artful Adventure at Fruitlands

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 20:11:00 GMT

By Diana Rock

Posted in Children's Program

My Little Sister, Leah, and I love making the most out of summer. Summer, to us, is about fun and laughter. Summer means endless possibilities and adventures. It’s about making memories and taking advantage of what life has to offer. And without a doubt that is what Leah and I have done. It’s hard to believe this was our third summer together! From nature walks, to softball games, to eating ice cream (yes, Leah and I have a sweet tooth!), we really made the most of it.

One of my favorite memories from this summer was going to an outdoor museum called Fruitlands. Fruitlands is a Transcendental Center located in Harvard, Massachusetts established in the 1840s. As soon as you drive up, you feel like you’re going back in time. The Center is surrounded by beautiful, old architecture and a picturesque landscape. One of the main reasons we wanted to go was to check out the outdoor and indoor art and it definitely lived up to the hype. From statues to textiles, there was so much to take in, and it was beautiful.

We managed to channel our inner artist as well. Using some colored pencils and paper we pretended to be artists ourselves. We captured our memories through drawings of what we were seeing–imagining if we were the artists would we do things the same or maybe differently. There was something very special about this as you really are able to slow down and take in what you’re experiencing when you draw it.

Taking in all the details and sharing something with my Little felt special and memorable. This is one of the things I love about being a Big: seeing the world in a different way and appreciating the little things through my Little’s eyes. When we finished our drawings, we showed each other our work and pointed out the things we loved about each other’s art. They were different but also similar in a lot of ways…just like us.

After the Center, we made our way to a nearby restaurant for some lunch, and, you guessed it… ice cream! The couple of hours we were there flew by, but we’ll always have our artwork to remember the day. As I think back to that day, I smile. It makes me feel so good knowing Leah and I tried something new and that our connection grows deeper. I enjoy taking in the beauty of the world with her, and visiting Fruitlands was another opportunity to do that. It has truly been another special sister summer.

Diana Rock has a Bachelors in Music Education from Western Connecticut State University. She currently works as a Learning and Development professional. Throughout the years she has loved mentoring and teaching music to young people. She has been a Big Sister with JBBBS for 3 years. In her free time, she enjoys practicing yoga, cooking, spending time in nature, and watching movies.

An Almost 30 Year F2F Match with Dan the Man from Ashland

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 20:44:00 GMT

By Dean Cohen

Dan became a Bar Mitzvah as an adult and I had the honor of performing an Aliyah at his service. Years later, Dan had the ability to return to honor and perform an Aliyah at my sons’ B’nai Mitzvah. My friendship with Dan has grown as my life has grown – meeting my wife, having my kids, getting my dog – and Dan has become a part of all of our lives. Dan and I now meet every other Sunday and walk to get bagels together and catch up on the last two weeks – he visits with my wife, Leslie, the dog and whichever kids are awake at the time.

I’m grateful for my match with Dan. While I know Dan looks forward to our time together every other week and this program has provided a valuable social outlet for him, I have learned so much from my friendship with Dan. Dan is a great guy- he has a heart of gold and I look forward to many more years of friendship with Dan.

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I have been a JBBBS volunteer for 37 years starting in 1986 in Los Angeles. I have had three matches, my latest and longest match has been with Dan as part of the Friend 2 Friend program for the past 28 years. After Dan and I first met with our social worker, we had our first outing at the Natick Mall at Johnny Rockets. We learned early that we both enjoyed food and eating together. Over the past 28 years Dan and I have shared many enjoyable activities and outings together including Yom Sport, Passover Seders, Hanukkah Parties, car shows, museums and, of course, eating out.

My name is Dr. Dean Cohen and I have been a JBBBS volunteer since 1986 starting in Los Angeles and then in 1995 in Massachusetts. I have had three matches during that time, my latest and longest match being 28 years. In addition to being a JBBBS volunteer, I am also on the Board of Jewish Big Brothers/Big Sisters. I live in Brookline with my wife and two teenage boys. After 35 years practicing dentistry, I am currently retired. In addition to volunteering for JBBBS, I am also a Make a Wish volunteer. I also enjoy spending time with my teenage boys, reading, exercising, and playing table tennis.

Ride for a Reason

Tue, 25 Jul 2023 16:22:00 GMT

by Josh Jick

Fast forward a few years when I was a working professional and living in the Boston area. I became a Big Brother in the Children’s Program at JBBBS and joined the organization’s Young Professional Group. Meeting with my Little every few weeks was personally very rewarding. That year was my first experience biking in the Rodman Ride. It was only then that I recognized what a special honor and privilege it is to both volunteer at the event AND actively participate as a bike rider. A bonus—both the 25-mile and 50-mile loops are incredibly scenic.

Over the years, I have recruited co-workers and friends to join me at the Rodman Ride.

It does not matter how fast you ride, the length of your ride, or how stiff you might feel the next day. What matters is that are part of this extremely worthy cause.

I am proud to reach out to my friends, family and professional networks to raise money for Team JBBBS at the Rodman Ride. Knowing that I have been able to make a difference to the organization and my Littles over the years has been personally rewarding. When I joined the JBBBS Board in 2021, I gained a much more thorough understanding of the extent to how financial resources, volunteer time commitment, Board governance, and the extraordinary leadership impacts the success of JBBBS’s Children’s Program, Friend 2 Friend Program, and 3 Specialty Programs.

I am forever grateful to my college friends for introducing me to JBBBS and the Rodman Ride.

I look forward to seeing you at the Rodman Ride on September 23!

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Participating in the Rodman Ride is always a blast. I should know – I’ve done it eight times!

My first connection to Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters (JBBBS) was when I was an undergrad at Brandeis University. A group of friends convinced me to volunteer at the Rodman Ride. Once I learned about both JBBBS and the Ride, I became excited to participate in support of such a worthy cause. I did not realize at the time what a high it would be to actually ride a bike at the event itself. It was wonderful to be surrounded by so many local organizations that serve and support at-risk youth.

Josh Jick joined JBBBS in 2014 as a Big Brother and has since joined the board. He has worked in the financial/banking industry for 10+ years, primarily working in the marketing, municipal, operations, and strategy areas. Currently, he is the Retail Strategy and Analytics Manager at Everett Bank. Josh is an active volunteer with CJP and Brandeis University, an Incorporator of Beaver Country Day School and serves on the Finance Committee at Gateways. Josh enjoys traveling, Boston sports, and running.

A Supportive Mentorship During Formative Years

Thu, 08 Jun 2023 15:31:00 GMT

By Ky and Kelvin

Ky and Kelvin were matched in the JBBBS LGBTQ+ program 4 years ago, when Ky was 11. Together, they have written this blog sharing their experience with JBBBS:

Ky:

When we met, it was like an instant connection. We both identify as being trans so talking about our journeys has always been easy for the both of us.

I have been going through most of the things Kelvin has experienced. Kelvin is always there to give pointers and advice about it all. Kelvin is older so he has been through the stages that I am still going through. It’s like having an adult friend who understands more about me than most of the people in my life know.

We also do a lot of fun things together like Codzilla, mini golfing, going to the beach, and many other adventures.

During the middle of the summer, we decided to go to the beach with Kelvin’s bocce set. We love to play bocce! We played, got ice cream, went swimming and then I saw lightning so we left early. On the way home, we had extra time so we went to Target and got random things we didn’t need and the Dollar Tree. At Target, I got blue light glasses and a light up mirror. And at the Dollar Tree I got a grow lizard and many little trinkets. We played with all our random stuff and laughed a lot. Then Kelvin drove me home.

Kelvin:

One of the reasons I signed up to be a Big with JBBBS is because I didn’t have a lot of older role models that understood me when I was younger. Being matched with Ky has been both really fun and also rewarding. I have really enjoyed being someone he can talk to about trans stuff and about anything else that is going on in his life. The time has flown by and he’s grown up so much since we started hanging out.

Both:

We think that many other kids and adults should do this program because it has been an incredible experience full of adventure. It’s like you get your own personal sibling that actually likes hanging out with you. Whether that’s late-night games (Celtics) or a two-hour weekend hang, it’s amazing to be around an older role model and best friend. We’re looking forward to keeping this friendship for a long time. It will be nice when I am older for us to check in and hang out. This is a never-ending friendship that we are going to cherish for a very long time.

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From Agganis to Fenway: A Friendship to Cheer For

Thu, 13 Apr 2023 14:20:00 GMT

By Jillian Martin

Through M.A.G.I.C., Ben and I have the chance to try all sorts of new activities. We’ve flexed our creative muscles when painting ceramic figurines, watched old movies at the Coolidge Corner theater, and gotten competitive when going bowling or playing trivia. Our favorite outings are anything related to Boston sports, like touring Fenway. We always learn something new and seeing the park from atop the Green Monster never gets old.

My personal favorite memory is winning a free pizza at the Boston University men’s basketball game! The announcer told us over the loudspeaker that fans cheering the loudest for the Terriers will win pizza and Ben and I hopped to our feet! We chanted and cheered and before we know it, a cheese pizza is delivered to our seats and we each have a slice before sharing the rest with others in our group. As a BU alum, being able to share this love for BU sports is extra special. I’m always extra excited to find out that I’ll be at Case Gym or Agganis Arena so that Ben and I can rock our BU gear and cheer for the Terriers.

Being matched for almost 7 years now means that Ben and I have learned so much more about each other besides our love for the Red Sox, Celtics, and Terriers. Ben and I both value time with our families, love listening to music, and enjoy a good meal with friends. I’ve also learned that there is no one who will tear up a dance floor quite like Ben.

If anyone is considering volunteering, I can’t emphasize enough how much fun we have together in the M.A.G.I.C. program. Ben and I both get to spend time together and connect with other matches every month, building a community.

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In no time at all, I had a match! Ben and I met for the first time in August of 2016 in Coolidge Corner where we got breakfast for dinner at Zaftigs and ice cream at JP Licks. We immediately bonded over our love for Boston sports. He’s a Celtics guy first while I love to spend summer nights at Fenway rooting for the Sox.

In May of 2016, I finished my Master of Social Work and started working full time. Hours once spent on writing papers and presenting on cases were now free. My friend, Sara, had invited me to a Young Professionals event hosted by Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters at Lucky Strike Fenway, and introduced me to the team at JBBBS. Before the night was over, I had signed up to learn more about M.A.G.I.C.

Jillian Martin, LCSW joined the MAGIC Program in the summer of 2016. She is the Camp Administrator at Camp Harbor View, a free day camp for Boston middle schoolers. She has her Bachelor of Science in Journalism from Boston University and her Master of Social Work from Simmons University. When not volunteering, Jillian is most likely to be found traveling, running with the Sole Sisters Running club, or spending time with her nieces and nephew.

A Magical Experience

Tue, 04 Apr 2023 15:57:00 GMT

by Paul Crocetti

Scott and I have found we share a lot of common interests, for example photography, baseball and movies. We enjoy discussing all three of those subjects and more. Scott has showed me his fabulous photographs and even gifted me a magnet of one of them, which hangs in my cubicle at work. We talk about the latest in local sporting events and give each other recommendations for movies and TV shows.

The activities and outings have been a blast. Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters does a great job of organizing a variety of things to do — trips to the Coolidge Corner movie theater, trivia and game nights, and BU basketball games to name just a few. At a recent game night, Scott taught me a new and better way to throw the beanbag in cornhole and we later battled it out in some tight chess and checkers matches.

The Passover Seder is always one of my favorite events, as we get to share a special meal together and experience the inclusive Haggadah. The tours of Fenway Park have also been major highlights, getting to explore and learn about the historical ballpark, take fun photos and talk more sports.

The virtual programming has been excellent as well. I’ve especially enjoyed the trivia nights and most recently a truly amazing magician/mentalist show. At the height of the pandemic, while I missed being in the same room as Scott, we spoke consistently over text, so I still felt connected to him.

In fact, over the last seven years, we’ve connected frequently outside of MAGIC events. We message each other a lot with holiday greetings, sports talk and just regular chit chat. And I was honored when Scott invited me to his birthday party a few years back and I was able to meet his family and friends.

From the staff at JBBBS to the other volunteers to Scott and all the participants in the program, this caring group of people has helped make these past seven years a valuable and unforgettable experience. Here’s to the next seven!

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I can’t believe I’ve been volunteering in the MAGIC (Monthly Activity Group In the Community) program for seven years.

It doesn’t feel like that long ago that I met my match, Scott, at the Cambridge Side Galleria as we waited to depart on a boat ride on the Charles River. I have vivid memories of the sights we saw along the water as the sun set, and of our first conversation as we spoke about our hobbies, work and favorites. About 75 Magic events and seven years later, we’re not just matches — we’re good friends.

Paul Crocetti is an editor at TechTarget in Newton, Mass. He lives in Sudbury with his wife and 3-year-old daughter.

Having Fun and Giving Back in the MAGIC Program

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 17:19:00 GMT

by Adam Feinstein

As an Eagle Scout, giving back to the community and building relationships have always been important aspects of my life. JBBBS makes getting involved and giving back not only easy to do but also extremely rewarding and enjoyable. After reviewing the different programs that JBBBS had to offer, I decided to become a friend and volunteer with the MAGIC (Monthly Activity Group In the Community) program.

Once on board with MAGIC, the JBBBS staff made the matching process simple, comfortable, and stress-free. At the end of the process, I was paired with my friend Joel and we had an instant connection. Upon our first meet-up at an event held at American Flatbread in Somerville, I learned that Joel is truly a great person to be around. He has a positive attitude, an outgoing personality, and an endless number of friends in the community. One could even say that he is the Mayor of MAGIC!

Although COVID has made meet-ups more difficult to plan, I am grateful for all the efforts the volunteers have put into creating thoughtful and fun events for MAGIC. Despite the hurdles from COVID, Joel and I have been able to continue building our friendship over the last couple of years by attending dance parties, arts and crafts events, Zumba, a magic show, and workouts, all brought to you by the MAGIC program. It has been a pleasure and rewarding experience to become friends with Joel, get to know his friends, and stay involved with the JBBBS program. I highly recommend becoming involved with JBBBS.

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In May 2019, my fiancé (now wife) signed us up to volunteer at an event, Yom Sport. Yom Sport is an annual event that provides athletes with disabilities in the Greater Boston area an opportunity to come together and participate in a variety of team sporting events. During Yom Sport, Tania Gray, the Director of Community Engagement and Outreach, approached me and asked if I would be interested in getting more involved. As I spoke to her and learned more about the various programs Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters (JBBBS) had to offer, I discovered that I could not only make a difference in the community but that I also wanted to. That day was my first introduction to the world of JBBBS, and I have never looked back.

Adam Feinstein joined JBBBS in 2020 as a volunteer in the MAGIC Program. He lives in Jamaica Plain with his wife Alison and dog Jasper. Adam has a degree from Syracuse University and is a project manager for a biotech company. In his free time, he enjoys golfing, hiking, cooking, boating, traveling, and networking within Boston.

A Special Match

Thu, 02 Mar 2023 14:51:00 GMT

by Sophie Katzman

Before I joined JBBBS, I hadn’t quite found a community outreach program that was as fulfilling and enjoyable. Each time I met with Lauren over our 3 years as a match, I was always excited to see her and plan our next outing. From painting pottery to ice skating, baking cookies and even making slime, I always felt a sense of the carefreeness of childhood coming back to me. It changed my perspective on many things and made me a better person.

Yet, the experience wasn’t so much about me as it is about Lauren. Our relationship gave her time to be the center of attention, ‘choose her own adventure,’ have fun and discover her own interests. We formed a strong bond and friendship.

Our formal ‘sisterhood’ lasted 3 years, before I unfortunately moved out of state. Yet the impact has been lasting even beyond those years. Though we are no longer able to see each other often and I miss our time together, I still keep in touch with Lauren and her family to this day. Lauren recently became a Bat Mitzvah. While I wasn’t able to attend, I felt touched that her family invited me. This shows the connection we made in a few years and the lasting impact it has had on both of us, even beyond monthly meetups. This program has such a special place in my heart; I am grateful for my experience and my relationship with my little sister.

Sophie Katzman is a New York City based education professional and Marblehead Native. She was a Big Sister through JBBBS from 2016-2019. Sophie has a bachelor’s in Creative Writing and Sociology from Trinity College and a Master’s in Education from Boston University. In her spare time, she likes to travel, bake, explore the wonders of NYC and spend time with family & friends!

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Though it has been some 6+ years since the first meeting with my Little, I can still feel the excitement of our very first outing. I remember it took a few months to find me a match. At the time, I hadn’t been sure why the match process was so lengthy, but I was pleasantly surprised when upon meeting Lauren, I realized how carefully JBBBS pairs two people – we were very alike! This made our outings seamless, as we shared a love for crafting, baking, beauty pampering, yummy treats and exploring the cities around us.

Full Circle Moment – The Magic of Camp

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 17:36:00 GMT

by Lauren Korn

I spent 7 summers at an overnight camp in Pennsylvania – when I was there, I could explore other parts of me. I was not limited in being who I was at school. I could be an athlete and a leader. I loved being able to step outside of my regular comfort zone in the safe confines of camp. What a true gift! Instead of just focusing on the arts, I played softball, tennis, and soccer. My last year at camp, I was even picked as one of the captains of color war – a beloved camp tradition where all campers are divided onto teams to compete against one another in sports. On top of all of this, I was also given the gift of deep and long-lasting friendships (my camp friends and I still have a group text almost 30 years after we left camp).

Now, working at JBBBS decades later, I feel like my work has come full circle. As the Director of Philanthropy, I am responsible for raising money not only for our entire agency but specifically for the JBBBS scholarship programs, which includes camp. I also have the opportunity to work closely with the camp scholarship committee and hear not only about the crucial need for these funds, but also about the tremendous impact of the scholarship has on our Littles and their families. I know the work we do has tremendous impact when I hear stories about our Littles learning to swim for the first time or being able to leave a tough family situation behind for the summer and to be carefree at camp.

I am so grateful that we are able to give the gift of camp scholarships to many of our Littles matched in our program. These scholarships provide our kids the chance to explore other interests away from their school life, make new friends and unplug from the digital world. It’s clear that without these funds many of our Littles would not be able to attend camp. I hope you will consider supporting the JBBBS scholarship program this year to help get more of kids to camp to experience the magic for themselves.

Camp is magical. Camp is important. Camp is transformative. These are all taglines we have used at JBBBS over the years to promote our camp scholarship program – but I believe they are all true! Growing up in New York, during the school year I was an artsy intellectual kid. I spent my time in dance classes and would never have considered trying out for a sports team. The idea of sports intrigued me – the camaraderie, working together for a common goal – but my identity as an artsy kid held me back from even trying out.

Lauren Korn is JBBBS’ Director of Philanthropy. She helps to raise critical funds to support JBBBS’ mission. When she is not at work, you can find her on the tennis courts, walking her dog Missy, boating with her husband Jerald and loving life as Mom to three amazing teenage boys who will be spending this summer at overnight camp!

Baked to Perfection – A Sweet Friendship

Tue, 24 Jan 2023 18:38:00 GMT

What is your favorite activity to do with your match?

Theresa and I are well-matched in so many ways. We both love animals, creative activities and especially FOOD! We love to plan special seasonable meals to make together. Some of our favorites include apple pie, cannolis, and crepes! Of course, while the food is baking, we can pursue our other favorite activities. You’ll often find us doing crafts or walking her dog Patches while we wait for our tasty treat to finish cooking.

What is it like to be matched for more than a year?

After being matched for nearly 2.5 years, our friendship has not only matured but also has become a natural fixture of daily life. We text most days, exchange pictures, and keep tabs on the little goings on until we get to hang out again! What’s more, I feel that I’ve gained a second family too; this is especially nice for me as a military spouse whose family lives over a thousand miles away. While my husband’s service means we’re moving again soon, I’m confident Theresa and I have cultivated a lifetime friendship that will span from coast-to-coast and beyond.

Can you share a memorable JBBBS event you attended together?

One of our favorite JBBBS events was the food truck event for summer kick-off! In addition to the grilled cheese and Cookie Monstah ice cream sandwiches, we really enjoyed making new friends and doing expressive art! We enjoyed the crafting so much that we signed up to do it again a few weeks later with JBBBS!

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My favorite memory with Theresa was the time we visited the Yankee Candle Village for her birthday. Our mini-girls trip included a full day of activities: a leisurely drive, ice cream, browsing, and sniffing (seemingly) every single candle there! We even got to make our own custom candles to commemorate the day! While it took a while for our noses to recover, those memories are very special and something we both still smile about.

Do you have a favorite memory with your match?

by McKenzie Kramer

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering?

I would tell anyone considering volunteering to stop what you’re doing and sign up! Too busy? You can volunteer with MAGIC for monthly group outings with your Friend. Erratic schedule? Ask for a community friend so you can schedule 1:1 hang-outs. JBBBS has all sorts of volunteer options to meet you where you’re at. Clinical Match Specialists (CMS) take great care in pairing you with your perfect match to cultivate a very fulfilling friendship. They also serve as a resource to help you and your Friend navigate your friendship as needed. JBBBS also offers a variety of events throughout the year so you can socialize and extend your social network with other Friend matches too! (Not to mention, you get to do it while at a movie, bowling, a ballet performance, or a dance party!!)

Explain how you decide on what activities to do.

Theresa and I are very democratic in our activity planning process. The week before we hang out, we typically throw out a number of ideas and discuss which one we want to do. In addition to the regular activities, we also did our own asynchronous book club! (She picked the book and we read at our pace and discussed where we were and our thoughts.) We also keep a mental list of bigger activities or ones that are seasonal. Right now, our big list includes a day trip to the North End (fresh pasta, gelato, and window shopping) and a Red Sox game in the spring!

McKenzie Kramer has been volunteering with JBBBS in Friend2Friend since September 2020 in the community, and later, the MAGIC program. She is a project manager at a Boston-based data science company. While she’ll be relocating soon with her military spouse, she looks forward to continuing her friendships with her two awesome matches. When she’s not hanging out with them, she’s spending time in the great outdoors with her husband and two Australian Shepherds.

How Choosing to Connect Has Made All the Difference

Wed, 04 Jan 2023 16:41:00 GMT

by Susan Yorks

I don’t think I will ever forget a particular evening in the summer of 2018 when I attended a CJP event on the North Shore called Choose to Connect. One of my dearest friends introduced me to Tania Gray, the Director of Community Engagement and Outreach for Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Boston (JBBBS). My friend happened to mention to Tania that my 27-year-old son, who lived in Boston, would make a great “Big Brother.” Within a few minutes of talking, I quickly learned a lot about JBBBS’s amazing youth mentoring program, and their great need in finding wonderful volunteers.

I got so excited about this program that I couldn’t wait to speak to my son to see if he would consider becoming a Big Brother. The minute I got in the car that night, I remember calling Jordan and telling him who I had just met and what I learned about JBBBS. I really expected to have to twist his arm, knowing how busy he was with starting a new job and getting married in one month! But instead, I was pleasantly surprised that his immediate response was, “Mom, I would love to be a big brother!”

Well, you may think that’s the end of a nice story, but it’s really just the beginning…

Jordan’s relationship with his little brother, Elias, felt like a match made in heaven. Each time our family got together, Jordan would share stories about his “Little” and all the many adventures they had together. These stories brought so much pride and joy to our family. I could see first-hand how JBBBS’s mission was being met. I watched up close and personal how friendship and mentoring can transform lives one relationship at a time. While often applauding my son for volunteering his time, Jordan would always turn it around and explain to me that Elias was just the most incredible kid! This relationship with Elias was impacting Jordan’s life more than he had ever imagined. He quickly learned how rewarding giving back can truly be!

Needless to say, Jordan’s experience inspired me to get involved with this incredible agency. I started off as a bit of an ambassador to the agency, singing its praises any chance I had! A little over a year ago, I was honored to be asked to serve as a board member, where I am surrounded by the most wonderful volunteers and staff!

JBBBS offers its two main programs that deliver on this life-changing impact-its Children’s Program (pairing children with Bigs) and Friend 2 Friend Program (pairing volunteers with adults with disabilities), bringing along the same holistic approach in actively engaging with the children, adults and families they support. They’ve recently added their LGBQ+ Program, College mentoring, Type 1 Diabetes Initiative, Camp and College Scholarships and so much more.

One of the biggest takeaways from my experience at JBBBS, is that Jordan and Elias’s perfect match did not happen by chance and is not at all unusual to the Agency. Every match at JBBBS is magical and special thanks to all the volunteers and staff who are committed to making a difference through the power of one-to-one relationships.

I’m so thankful for that beautiful summer night when I chose to connect! My involvement with JBBBS has changed my life for the better and the rewards are immeasurable.

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Susan Yorks lives on the North Shore with her husband, Jon. They love spending time with their two children and three grandchildren. In her free time, Susan is an avid golfer and boater and she enjoys winters in Southern Florida.

One Year “Friendiversary”: 1 year down, looking forward to many more

Mon, 19 Dec 2022 17:00:00 GMT

by Christine Ngigi

What is your favorite activity to do with your match?

There are too many to pick one! We are like two peas in a pod. We both love capturing memories by taking pictures, we enjoy shopping in different stores; Millie is so great with picking different shopping spots each time and a meticulous planner, too. She amazes me every day.

I particularly enjoyed our painting experience at the Ceramica Paint Studio because I got to share my love of art with Millie and learn something new at the same time. I had never painted on clay before, and she happily took me through all the steps until we made the cutest pieces of art! We had so much fun and enjoyed a nice personal conversation too while at it.

What would you say to someone who is considering volunteering?

If you are wondering how you can do this with no prior experience with persons with disabilities, the training provided equipped me prior to starting my match experience.

The matching process was thorough, and I appreciate it more now as I spend time with Millie because she is simply perfect for me! We complement each other in many ways, and this was made possible by the diligence put in by the JBBBS Clinical Match Specialists (CMS). The CMS’s were careful to incorporate my personal preferences, so clarity and honesty of any potential volunteer is important.

What is it like to be matched for one year?

When I was starting this journey, I was not sure how I would make it to meet with Millie every month with my back-to-back schedule due to my two jobs. I was honestly scared because I like keeping my word and take pride in being reliable. I have been very blessed because Millie and Millie’s mother, are very understanding and flexible of my erratic schedule so we do day, afternoon, or evening activities so that we can meet as scheduled without fail.

I am so glad I took the step to volunteer with JBBBS. The next years will only be better!

Christine Ngigi is a warm and loving daughter, sister and doting aunt to many adorable nieces and nephews with over 10 years HR & Administration and Biotechnology professional work experience. She holds a Masters of Business Administration and takes pride in being reliable, impartial, resourceful and consistently deliver high quality work. She is currently enjoying being part of the transformative process of improving patients’ health through innovative health solutions at Thermofisher Scientific’s production line.

Christine enjoys a good outdoor run, quality time with friends and family and mentoring/nurturing the younger generation by listening intently to their needs and giving them the right counsel.

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Do you have a favorite memory with your match?

Christine and her Friend Millie recently celebrated their 1-year anniversary of being matched in JBBBS’ Friend 2 Friend program. Christine took some time to answer JBBBS’ questions in a recent interview.

Apart from the day we first met in person, I must say Yom Sport is the most favorite memory so far. It was the first time for each of us participating in Yom Sport and we both had so much fun and were fully engaged the whole time! (Yom Sport is a day for athletes with disabilities to come together and participate in a variety of sporting and team building events.) I remember on our way home; we were both in agreement that it was so much fun and we can’t wait for next year.

A Perfect Match

Wed, 09 Nov 2022 17:19:00 GMT

by Harris Wallack

Flash forward to today, I have been a big for the last two years to a now 9-year-old boy named Emmett and have seen the impact that JBBBS can have firsthand. Through our 2 years together I have had an opportunity to develop a close relationship with both Emmett and his family. We have done all sorts of fun things, such as playing sports, going to get ice cream, and going to Boston sports games. Our match started during the throws of Covid-19, and the pandemic had clearly had an impact on Emmett’s willingness to try new things, the lack of social opportunities had also made it hard for him to understand the realities of winning and losing. We have been able to work through some of these issues together, not in a parenting sense, but just by doing things together where he has had a role model with him.

T1D is a disease where the treatment plan requires constant input from the patient. You basically must act as an organ, but rather than hormones signaling how much insulin to release, you must base it on estimations of the nutritional breakdown of food, and the impact your day-to-day activities will have. As a child growing up with diabetes, I went from my parents completely controlling my insulin regimen, to a supervised independence in late middle school and early high school, then off to college and into life fully on my own. Imagine the mixture of a teenager who thinks they know everything, now having to control a lethal medicine 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I was lucky enough to have a tremendous support system in my parents and school nurses, but even with this I still went through times of my life where I put myself in dangerous situations or felt alone. For everything my parents were able to do for me, I know that a peer would have had an even stronger effect.

This program is such an amazing one because it takes the proven framework JBBBS already has – one that I have seen work in action – and implements it for a community in such great need of it.

Harris Wallack joined JBBBS as a Big in 2020, and has since helped to support the T1D initiative, and joined the JBBBS Board. He is from Natick, MA, and went to Gann Academy for high school. Harris is currently studying at Northeastern University to receive his MBA and will be working at EY doing Workforce Advisory Consulting come graduation.

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Back in 2020 I was approached by Tania Gray and asked if I wanted to volunteer as a Big. Tania is the Director of Community Engagement and Outreach for JBBBS, but also is the mother of a classmate of mine from high school. My initial reaction to this opportunity was hesitation. I had a lot going on at work and I wasn’t sure I was willing to give up, what felt then as, precious 24-year-old weekend time. I took a while to think about what I wanted to do, and in this process thought about what it meant to say yes to this opportunity. I thought back to when I was a kid and the impact that a young man named Jake, who used to drive me to school when my parents were busy, had on me just by being someone who listened and talked to me like an adult. It is not that Jake was doing anything particularly profound, but that these ordinary acts and short moments together had such a large effect. I thought about how it would feel to be in the driver’s seat and affect a child’s day as he did mine simply by showing up and becoming a friendly presence. Suddenly, this opportunity didn’t seem so daunting.

Thinking about Diabetes Awareness Month, and the new T1D programs that are being brought into the fold by JBBBS, I think about the number of times that I, having T1D myself, would have benefited from this program myself as a child.

Meet Judy Shankman, JBBBS’ Incoming Board Chair

Tue, 08 Nov 2022 20:07:00 GMT

by Judy Shankman

What has been your connection to JBBBS before taking on this role?

I decided to become a Big when my twins went to college. My house felt very quiet with my children and their friends and teammates away at college. Volunteering to be a Big felt like I would be doing something very tangible and worthwhile. My experience as a Big cemented my commitment to the mission; I actually asked the CEO at the time to invite me to be a board member so that I could contribute to the work of the agency. I had previously served on many boards but the work of this board felt so very compelling

Can you tell us more about your own JBBBS volunteer experience?

This is by far the best volunteer experience I have ever had as I really feel like I have had an impact. I have been lucky to have been matched two times. My most recent match is with a 16-year-old boy who I have been matched with for 9 years.

At the High Holidays, our Rabbi spoke about the importance of showing up and stepping up for others. And, that’s what this experience has been for me. Whether it is going on long walks with my dog, bowling or visiting the zoo, I regularly show up for him and he knows I am there for him.

Why is JBBBS’ work so critical?

The work of JBBBS is critical because it has the ability to change the life of a child or an adult with disabilities. If the individuals we serve reach their potential and become happy, productive, confident, and self-reliant, it can only have a positive impact on our entire community.

What are you most proud of when you think of the work that JBBBS has been doing the last few years during this pandemic?

During the pandemic, we have had an amazing ability to support our matches and foster human connection virtually. The staff has been incredibly creative in planning events and opportunities to stay in touch. Loneliness and isolation made our work so vital and the needs so immediate. Our staff and volunteers met those needs with a great deal of hard work and compassion.

What are your hopes for JBBBS?

My hope for the agency is that we have the ability to sustain and grow both our core and our specialty programs so that we can serve a greater number of clients that would benefit from one-to-one mentoring. I also hope that our community at large will learn about our work, support our efforts, and volunteer to join us in some capacity. We have challenges ahead in the next few years as demand for our programs continues to grow. We will need to garner financial as well as human resource in order to meet our goals and expand our reach.

Judy Shankman grew up in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania and attended the University of Pennsylvania where she graduated with a B.S in Nursing. She has worked in women’s health for her entire career, most recently as a fertility nurse for the past 20 years. She is happily married to her husband and is the proud mother of adult twins and grandmother to three adorable grandchildren. She adores her 12-year-old Daschund and likes cooking, reading, running, and hanging with family and friends. She enjoys volunteering and is a Big Sister to my friend Andrew.

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What excited you to take on this leadership role for JBBBS?

I am excited to take on this role because I feel that I really understand and appreciate the value of the organization. I have been involved with JBBBS for almost 20 years and my excitement for the work we do has never waned, but has rather deepened over time. I have the utmost respect and admiration for the staff and our Board of Directors and look forward to collaborating with such a talented group. Our new board members will most certainly lend us their fresh voices and perspectives.

Just do it – Volunteering with JBBBS

Wed, 26 Oct 2022 19:13:00 GMT

By Yaniv Havusha

Although every time I hang with my Little is special and memorable, I’d have to say some of my favorite memories are our sing-alongs in the car. It’s amazing how music can bring people together and I love when my Little takes control of Spotify and either plays what they are into, or some classics that get us both energized. We also really enjoy attending the Red Sox games thanks to the generosity of JBBBS donors. Just having the opportunity to do something “out of the ordinary” and feeling the excitement of Fenway during a crisp night is the best. The splurge of pretzel/hotdogs and ice cream certainly help as well.

As with any relationship, our Big/Little relationship has strengthened and matured over time. Over my four years as a Big, I’ve gotten to know my Little and their family so well that I feel as if I’m a member of theirs. I love the connection my Little and I have made and it’s amazing for me to see the growth they’ve made both physically and in life.

To anyone on the fence about volunteering, just follow Nike’s slogan and “just do it”. You really have nothing to lose. You get to make an important impact in someone’s life and they in yours, which truly is the best part. What more could you want?

Born in Boston. Attended Curry College where he obtained a B.A. in Education, as well as a masters in Higher Education and Student Affairs at Merrimack College. Has always enjoyed working with kids, youth and young adults and continues to do so as the Facilities Manager at Epstein Hillel School. When he’s not hanging with his mentee or working, he can be found reading or cheering on the Boston Celtics or at a Third Eye Blind Concert.

Thanks Yaniv

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During the interview process and even after meeting my Little and their family, I remember thinking, “Am I good enough?” “Will I fail them as a Big?” It was after only a few outings with my Little, I soon realized that I could put my fears aside. The commitment is not nearly as intense as I had feared and allows my Little and me flexibility to connect when it is convenient for us, even over text or social media.

When I first got notified by Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Boston (JBBBS) that my name had been given to them as a potential Big, I was nervous to say the least! Having grown up going to camp, the JCC and after school programs my whole life, I knew the importance of having a mentor in one’s life. Having had so many mentors in my life has helped shape me into the person I am today.

Although I was originally nervous that I’d “fail” as a Big, I can say it would have been more of a “failure” not to volunteer.

Generous philanthropy inspired by 70 years of friendship

Wed, 12 Oct 2022 18:53:00 GMT

By Julie Levinson

In 1932, Harold Price was just 10 years old when his father passed away, leaving behind his mother and two younger sisters. Soon after, it was suggested to his mother that she find a father figure for Harold. JBBBS matched Harold with Joe Wolbarsht and that relationship would continue for the next 70 years.

In 1996, the duo was honored at a breakfast at the Jewish Community Center in Newton where Alan Bernon – then president of JBBBS – feted them with these words:

“Over seven decades, through your mitzvot, charity, and acts of loving kindness, you have been the embodiment of all that is noblest and most beautiful in our Jewish tradition and in our Jewish community.”

At that time a fund was established in Joe’s name to honor his dedication and commitment to JBBBS. To date, that fund has generated roughly one million dollars in support of the mission of JBBBS.

With a deep appreciation of the profound impact Joe had in Harold’s life, upon Harold’s death in 2014, his wife Annette and son Ron created the Harold D. and Annette Price Family Foundation . This discretionary fund continues to generate support – both monetarily and through volunteerism – for the mission of JBBBS: to help facilitate mentor relationships that can lead to a transformative impact on everyone involved.

Earlier this summer, Annette, who remains a devoted donor to JBBBS, celebrated her 100th birthday, surrounded by friends, family, and members of the community to which she and Harold have served with charity and loving kindness all these years.

JBBBS is grateful to the Price family for their decades-long commitment to the organization and wish Annette a wonderful and healthy 100th birthday!

Julie Levinson is a writer, storyteller, and lover of learning about people and their experiences. She believes that everybody has a story and that others are interested in hearing them. Based north of Boston, Julie can be found walking for miles on the beach, collecting mountains of sea glass and, year round, enjoying an iced coffee and truly believes that if it’s not a good time, it’s not a good story.

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An autistic connection: a friendship fueled by shared experiences

Thu, 18 Aug 2022 16:08:00 GMT

by Shea Belsky

Sam and I both love to be active. He’s a star athlete in the Special Olympics and often the MVP of his football and basketball team. If there’s a hoop, chances are high that Sam is going to aim for a slam dunk! Our outings have taken us all over, from go-karting to mini-golfing. We’ve even gone to Nashoba Valley’s haunted hayrides, which was quite the spooky experience!

The pandemic didn’t slow us down – we just took it outside! Kayaking on the Charles River, hiking at Blue Hills, shooting hoops in his backyard, going to JBBBS’ Food Truck Festival…we did it all! Once things got safer for us to go indoors, we started exploring some awesome restaurants in the area. Sam’s favorites right now are The Friendly Toast and The Painted Burro.

What makes our match special is how much I can empathize with what Sam is going through. So many of his experiences are similar to mine, and he can be real with me about what’s going on. It’s different for us as two autistic people to talk with each other than it is in a clinical setting. When Sam talks about how he’s feeling or about a specific event, I can unlock valuable insights for him that only someone with autism would have. That enables Sam to get so much out of the match!

Whether it’s getting down to business with Sam in the gym, finding cool new spots to eat around the Boston area, or hanging out over dinner, I’m so glad that the two of us met! Getting to be a Big Brother has been an amazing experience for me as well. I’ve gotten to explore so much of the Greater Boston area because of Sam. He has also given me the chance to connect with another autistic young adult, something that’s pretty rare for me. He turns 18 this year, and graduates high school at the end of next year! I can’t wait to celebrate both huge milestones with him!

Shea Belsky is the CTO of Mentra . Mentra is a neurodivergent-friendly talent platform that intelligently matches neurodiverse individuals with employers that value their strengths. Mentra puts recruiters in front of candidates rather than forcing them to navigate through the challenging process of finding a job. Shea lives with his fiancé , Ariana, and their two cats Sugar Plum and Bailey, in Dedham. He graduated from Cornell University in 2018 with a BS and MPS in Information Science. In his free time, Shea loves to go running, skiing, and cycling.

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When I first reached out to JBBBS in April 2019, I had a clear idea of who I’d be a great Big for. I’m Shea Belsky, an autistic 25-year-old who has been through the public school system. I had an IEP, physical therapy, speech therapy, a psychologist, a one-on-one aide and much more. The first time I spoke with the Caitlin at JBBBS, I told her about myself and how I could be a great match for an autistic little. A few months later, I met Sam and his mom for the first time. And, a little while later, we were competing with each other in the JCC’s gym!

On Hope and Looking Forward

Wed, 08 Jun 2022 13:24:00 GMT

by Parent of Little (Anonymous)

My role is small, and their relationship is significant.

Particularly given that we are living in a time when LGBTQ+ books are being pulled from libraries and states across the nation are attempting to mandate and legislate queer kids out of existence, and so many young people are barely hanging on, my child’s favorite activities together with her Big are especially poignant. They bond while playing Nintendo, visiting the local library, searching for the best possible apple at the farmers market, and discovering for the first time that—Hey! Yes! Soda is DELICIOUS!!! It is in seeing these small joys that I feel like everyone ought to be able to see and appreciate the need for a better future, one that is inclusive and pure of heart, and of the sort that every person deserves to have.

Parents are expert worriers, and I am certainly no exception. Many days, all I want to do is wrap my arms around my child, tuck her under my wing, and not so much as let her peek a single eyelash out at the uncertain world beyond our walls. But here is a larger truth: My wing cannot hold her all that much longer before she will want to leave it anyway.

So instead of tucking her away, I know our time together is better spent helping her build her own boat, sew her own sails, and learn to chart her own course in life. A big part of this is helping ensure she has people who love her foremost and who will support her on her journey, wherever she needs to go. As she grows up, I know there will be times when I am no longer her first-choice person to talk things through with. This hurts. But it helps knowing she has a Big in her life who already understands so much about her, and who is the sort of person who wants to be there for her, and who will listen with a kind, wise, open, and empathetic heart.

Thanks to JBBBS, my child has a friend who she truly identifies with, and my child sees a path that feels possible to her to follow. This will help give her confidence to trust her own compass. I am grateful for that, just as I am grateful because her mentor could not possibly be a more kind or amazing person.

The author lives in suburban Boston with her family. She is fiercely proud of all her children and has asked to be anonymous for their privacy.

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As a parent of a transgender daughter, it is hard to fully express my gratitude for JBBBS’ LGBTQ+ mentoring program. I do so little, yet my child benefits so much.

Over time, I’ve found my role in the program to be one of trust, support, and space, which I think might sound deceptively easy. In the beginning, I worked to trust JBBBS’ established process, support the process by being as open and honest as possible, and then step back fully to give them space to find my daughter’s match. Today, the trust comes easily—my child’s Big is a wise and giant-hearted rare find of a person who I trust implicitly, and every person I have encountered at JBBBS has been wonderful. Supporting the relationship through continual and open communication takes some work from all of us involved, but it is work we are all committed to. Giving space to my daughter is the hardest for me because my natural inclination is to nurture her. This is an area of growth that I am working on.

Why I Volunteer

Tue, 17 May 2022 15:55:00 GMT

by Camden H. Mamigonian

I remember one particular event we organized for a school that didn’t have much of a science program. The Vice Principal thanked us for coming in, saying the students likely would never get exposed to the subjects and ideas we were showing them. It was a typical event, with the joyful chaos that erupts in a classroom when kids are motivated and having fun. At the end of the last session, as we were packing up and the teacher was corralling the kids back to their desks, one student stood up and announced, “When I grow up, I want to work for <my company>!” It wasn’t the desire to work for my employer that struck me; it was the clear impact I had made on this student’s life in the short forty-five minutes I spent with him. I’ll never forget that moment.

The experience spoke to one of the motivators for my desire to volunteer: this world is full of inequities that have enormous implications for the lives of children through no fault of their own. For those of us, like me, who have been fortunate enough to benefit from those inequities it behooves us to do what we can to even the playing field, whether it be through financial donations, advocacy, or giving our time.

Which brings me to my time as a Big Brother. My Little and I recently celebrated our one-year anniversary, a year in which one-on-one volunteering has certainly been a challenge. But the growth in our relationship has been amazing to see. I see a lot of myself in him—behavior, interests, etc. Our outings are always full of sarcastic teasing and laughter, even when he’s dominating my team in laser tag. It’s been a relationship that has made an immense impact on me and, I hope, him. Our friendship so far has been even more than I’d hoped it would be.

These experiences, coupled with the (however selfish) incredibly rewarding feeling I get when the impact I make is made clear, is why I volunteer.

Camden H. Mamigonian has a bachelor’s in Physics from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute and a master’s in Aerospace Engineering from the University of Maryland. He currently works as a Software Engineering Manager. Throughout the years he has loved volunteering with young people as a reading buddy, STEM advocate, and most recently as a Big Brother for JBBBS. In his free time he is passionate about learning and enjoys baseball, tennis, the arts, traveling, and life with his wonderful partner, Diana, and cat, Juno.

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My volunteering journey started in earnest at my first employer when I heard about an informal organization within the company that developed events in local schools to expose students to STEM. It sounded like an incredible group to be a part of, and a fun and worthy cause to support, so I joined up. It didn’t take long to affirm my suspicions that what we were doing was in fact worthy—and absolutely fun! Spending the few hours in a classroom teaching kids about solar energy, jet propulsion, water filtration, and much more, and seeing the enthusiasm and excitement they exuded during the activities was more rewarding than I imagined. Their aptitude and creativity never ceased to amaze me. I was hooked.

A Well Baked Friendship

Thu, 05 May 2022 15:09:00 GMT

by Ariella Honig

Now, we had a long way to go before we were able to bake this strawberry cake. We spent months and months together getting to know one another. I learned that she was artsy, funny, talkative, and playful. We’d have the best time running around Davis Square, window shopping, going to the playground, and getting ice cream. She loved when I took her to pottery places where she could paint and design her creation. We would laugh because hers came out like beautiful works of art and mine looked juvenile in comparison. We dabbled more in our love of food and adventure. I tried her favorite dumpling spot and she ate at my favorite Thai place. It became clear that we made a good pair. Our bond continued to grow as most of our time was spent together went from getting to know each other to two friends catching up on each other’s lives.

We finally reached a point in our friendship where it was approved by her parents and our match specialist that she could come over to my house to bake this well-awaited cake. We settled on a strawberry cake with chocolate frosting. I had her pick out the recipe and I shopped for the ingredients beforehand. I was so excited about prepping for our day together. She came very prepared herself. When I went to pick her up, she rushed to the door with her apron and a cake stand. We were ready. We caught up with each other in between measuring cups of flour and cracking eggs. We laughed, made a mess, and placed our cakes in the oven. A few hours later we had made the frosting and cooled the cakes. It was time to assemble. We used her cake stand and started layering chocolate frosting on our cake and smoothing it out with a kitchen knife. We realized shortly after that we probably should have let our cakes cool a little longer. We sliced in, sampled our hard work, and agreed this was the most fun we had ever had.

Baking has become central to our friendship. We talk about it constantly, and exchange baking gifts and tips. It has become an outlet for us, especially in a time when we were not able to be together. Throughout the pandemic, we’ve used video communication tools to be together in each other’s kitchens and bake along with the same recipe. Baking together has sustained us through some of the hardest times in our lives. Baking has allowed us to easily and naturally have conversations and cultivate new skills. Years later, after vaccines, tests, and safety measures, we were finally able to be in the same kitchen again baking. This time in a new apartment, a few years older, and with much more skill we tackled a new recipe.

Ariella Honig is a marketing and communications professional. She loves to relish in the Boston theatre scene, bake and explore new restaurants around town. She lives in Cambridge with her fiance, Ben and they are both Bigs in the JBBBS program.

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My Little and I made a promise to each other the first day we met. A little nervous and excited, I remember walking from my house on a rainy March day. I had been waiting six months to get paired with a Little and my match specialist assured me that she thought the wait would be worth it. I rang the doorbell and out appears an adorable barking dog, my match specialist, and my Little’s family. She sat in her living room quiet and pensive. Looking at the situation around her and sizing me up. We went over the basics of what it would mean to be a match, what our responsibilities and commitments were to each other, and answered any questions.

It then came time to give me and my potential new Little some space and time to see if we would connect. I remember entering her dining room, for some privacy, and everyone pretending not to eavesdrop or watch. We started with the basic questions. “What do you do?” “What subjects do you like in school?” “What hobbies do you have?” This slightly awkward back and forth carried on until we stumbled upon a hobby that we both share, baking. She looked at me and said, “when I am allowed to go to your house, I want to bake a cake together. My friend and I tried to make a strawberry cake once and it was gross. I want to try to make it better this time.” I looked at her, smiled, and replied, “you’re on.”

Emily and I connected really quickly, and it became so apparent why we were matched. We have a lot in common. One being that her parents and siblings are all alums of Cornell University where I also attended college. Soon enough, I’d be going to Cornell ice hockey games with Emily and cheering on the team. We also share a love of ice cream and enjoying scoops at JP Licks became a regular occurrence for us.

I was a ball of nerves walking up to Starbucks to meet my Friend 2 Friend match. I am usually pretty good at meeting new people and making new friends, but this was different. I joined JBBBS because I wanted to make a difference so I really wanted my match to like me. Little did I know, becoming friends with Emily would be so easy.

My increasing commitment to JBBBS over the years

Thu, 05 May 2022 14:26:00 GMT

by Susan Shale

That was the start of singing carpool karaoke in my car together, which we do on all our outings. It sets our fun mood. Sometimes it’s Disney classics or music from our youth. Over the years, we have grown to be good friends, enjoying meals, ice cream, and museums. We also attend JBBBS community events like the Passover Seder and Chanukah party, which gives us the opportunity to interact with other matches. Our friendship is easy and we always look forward to seeing each other.

I was asked to co-chair this year’s Big Bash, which is truly an honor. I am so grateful to JBBBS for giving me the opportunity to meet and become friends with Elisa. Our relationship has broadened my awareness of people living with disabilities. Bringing a spotlight to JBBBS and the programs it offers is necessary. Funding that makes community wide programs available like the Passover Seder is important.

Susan and her husband, Rod and dog, Ollie live in Newton. She has three grown children, Sydney, Michael and Ben, that reside in New York City. She is passionate about fitness and has worked in the field for over twenty years. She enjoys reading a good book, hiking, golfing and playing canasta. She is just back from planning and leading a women’s spiritual hiking trip to Sedona, AZ, a dream trip of a lifetime.

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Elisa and I have been matched for more than 5 years. After attending a JBBBS fundraising event, I decided to get involved. My children had graduated from high school and were on their way. Volunteering a few hours each month was both attainable and a way of adding something special to my life. I was open to learning about different programs and settled into JBBBS’ Friend 2 Friend program.

Elisa and I were introduced and, as luck would have it, two tickets to an upcoming Red Sox game had been donated to JBBBS and they were offered to us for our first match outing. For this first outing, we were both nervous about spending the entire day together and didn’t know what to expect. It was planned that I would pick Elisa up at her home and we would drive into Kenmore Square together. We navigated the crowds on Yawkey Way and into Fenway Park and, once we got to our amazing seats, we both started to relax. Quickly realizing we were the same age, we shared the same taste in TV shows and music. We had an easy bond. We stayed at the game until we sang Sweet Caroline along with all the other fans.

“What’s in a Name”: How My Favorite Name Came Full Circle

Thu, 28 Apr 2022 18:25:00 GMT

by Bradley Baskir

From that year onward, when I was just 11 years old, I started to tell people that my favorite name, beside my own, was “Zach”. It just exudes coolness. I mean, does “Zach Attack” not sound awesome?! I kid you not that I told my now wife, who at the time was just my girlfriend, that I wanted to name our first born son Zach if we had the chance to do it. So yeah, I kinda grew to love the name Zach over the last 20 years of my life.

So that brings me to May 2021. Joining JBBBS as a volunteer was something I was humbled and privileged to be a part of. I went through the standard interview and screening process by the case managers to ensure that I was matched with the best fit for a Friend and sure enough, a match was made: a Needham-based 20-year old by the name of…wait for it…Zach!

Talk about good fortune for yours truly, huh? I could not wait to meet Zach and tell him how much I am obsessed with his name! On the first call we had over Zoom (boooooo COVID!), one of the first things I mentioned to Zach was how cool his name was, if he didn’t know it already. It all felt full circle to have had a mentor named Zach as a 5th grader, and now here I am being matched with a new friend named “Zach”.

New Zach is now 21 years old and we have an amazing relationship. He is a young man of few words, often leaning on his comfortable 2-3 word responses, but I can see in his eyes how much he enjoys the engagement and the friendly banter we have back and forth. We were finally able to meet in person in late October, and we did what Zach loves to do most: watch Green Line trains roll by while sitting at a station in Coolidge Corner. That in-person encounter will likely be a turning point for our relationship because now Zach and I have a level of rapport that is difficult to organically create across a screen.

I am grateful to the entire JBBBS team for a perfect match with present-day Zach, just as I had a perfect match with Zach 20 years ago.

Now if only I could get my wife on board for the “Zach” name for our first son…

Bradley Baskir is financial advisor at Morgan Stanley in Boston and a former management consultant. He grew up in Newton, and now lives in Brookline with his wife, Aliza, and 1-year old daughter, Abigail.

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I had the fortune of being assigned Zach Gray, eldest son of none other than Tania Gray, Director of Community Engagement and Outreach at JBBBS of Greater Boston (small world!). I remember having seen Zach around the upper school campus and thinking how cool he was. When you’re in 5th grade, one tends to idolize the upperclassmen in the school and I felt like I was given the best possible match for this program.

“What’s in a Name?” – it’s a famous line uttered by Juliet in Shakespeare’s ‘Romeo and Juliet’ stating that a name is just a name and its meaning is utterly irrelevant when it comes to the person who holds it.

But my experience has been different. There has always been something to the name “Zach” for me, dating back to my 5th grade days at Solomon Schechter Day School in Newton.

Here’s how it all started – as part of the 8th grade-5th grade mentorship program, each 5th grader is assigned an 8th grade mentor for the year. I remember the excitement of finding out which “Cool” 8th grader we’d all be assigned to.

All the Little things

Wed, 13 Apr 2022 18:11:00 GMT

by Kristen Gloss

We were lucky and got to meet in-person several times before quarantine began. We took part in bowling, a coloring and cards morning, and eating pancakes with maple syrup at Drumlin Farm. Our bond quickly solidified over good food and our love of animals.

I remember back to those first few get-togethers and simultaneously realize there was nothing to worry about and wonder how it has already been two years of friendship with my Little. It has been wonderful to experience a variety of activities through her eyes, especially photography walks, ice skating, and the Franklin Park Zoo. When I take a moment longer to reflect on this experience, I realize how much more I have received from being a Big than I think I give.

Being a Big for me, has been about just being there for my Little and knowing she will be a part of my life even when it feels like nothing else makes sense anymore. The COVID-19 pandemic has been overwhelming for everyone, but I knew that no matter what was going on, my Little could count on me to support her, and I could count on her to bring laughter and connection. I love listening to her talk about her school day, what she does with her friends, and everything that makes up her life. Spending time with my Little has given me something to look forward to and get excited about no matter how dark the world can seem. Just seeing her get excited about whatever activity we plan to do together or how passionate she gets while talking about something (often animals), makes me smile. This match has meant so much to me and carried me through the fear and disconnect that it was so easy to feel lost in during the initial stages of the pandemic. Words cannot fully express how grateful I am to be a part of Alina’s life and share all of the little things that brighten our days together.

Kristen Gloss is a writer, editor, and photographer based in Waltham.

Posted in Children's Program , JBBBS Blogs

My worries of not being good enough or capable enough as a Big quickly dissipated because of the support of JBBBS’ Clinical Match Specialist and my first meeting with my Little. Alina and I met in January of 2020, before the word Coronavirus really meant anything to me. At our initial meeting, I saw a young girl who was just as nervous and excited to be there as I was. Falling into our friendship was easy. We both loved animals, enjoyed going on walks, and playing card games. Even if we didn’t have all of those things in common though, we both wanted to be there and that was more than enough.

Like many other JBBBS volunteers, I didn’t know if I would be a good Big Sister when I first applied. I didn’t know if I could come up with topics to talk about or activities that would interest my Little. I worried that whoever I was matched with, we just wouldn’t connect. Putting yourself out there can be difficult regardless of age. All I knew is that I wanted to be there for a young adult in the same way that I could have benefited from a mentor when I was teen. I wanted to let someone else know that they were not alone.

A JBBBS Friendship – Ice cream, injuries and everything in between

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 20:52:00 GMT

by Camille Finn

We had become such great friends and were so excited to spend more time together. Then, the COVID pandemic came along, and Emily found out that she would have to move back home to Connecticut. I feared that our friendship may weaken and we’d lose touch, but, oh, was I wrong. Emily and I started FaceTiming and planning virtual activities. We watched movies together over Netflix Party and did crafts over Zoom.

We grew closer and provided each other support through the isolation and anxiety of the pandemic. Emily was there for me when I needed knee surgery. She sent me flowers and get well wishes from miles away. In return, I was able to provide support to her throughout injuries and setbacks. It has been amazing to know that, not only do we each have a friend that we can laugh and play with, but we each also have someone that is there for us when times get hard.

Over time, as the pandemic got better, Emily and I felt safer about meeting up. In December, we got together in New York City and went to The Museum of Ice Cream. It was so good to see Emily and chatting over ice cream brought us right back to old times.

Every time I see Emily, her face lights up and she is so excited to talk and spend time together. I know I am making a difference in her life and her friendship has meant a lot to me too. I’m so grateful to JBBBS for putting us together and for giving us a friendship that’ll last for many years to come.

Camille Finn is 27 and works as a Nutrition Program Coordinator for Boston Public Schools. She grew up in New York and has lived in the Boston area for almost 6 years now. She enjoys spending time outside and exploring new restaurants. Camille loves being a part of JBBBS because it gives her the opportunity to connect with the Jewish community in Boston. She is so happy to be a volunteer and to have met her friend, Emily, through the organization.

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The Dream Team

Thu, 03 Mar 2022 00:10:00 GMT

by Jeff Atkinson

Little did I know my 11-year-old brother Jahni and his family could have such an impact on me both personally and professionally. He is the coolest, most athletic, kindest, driven, and polite kid I could have hoped for, and so is his family! We hit it off right from our first zoom (thanks Covid) and have been making memories ever since. Whether we are playing basketball, eating ice cream, going to Sox or C’s games, bowling, reading, playing at Launch (thanks JBBBS!) or making pizza together, we have a bond that is more than just 2x a month comingling.

In April of 2021, to top off the tough times with Covid, I lost my role model and Grandpa Carl due to Alzheimer’s, and that crushed me. I cannot describe the weight that had on me personally, but you know who made things better? Jahni did. Jahni has become family to me, and I couldn’t be more eager to see where the future lies for him.

I cannot speak to the impact that I have had on my Little. But I can say confidently from my volunteer experience that you wouldn’t regret getting involved with this program. Being a part of this young man’s life, giving time to develop our youth and future, understanding that life is meant to be fun and uplifting, and elevating each other are all reasons Jahni will forever be a brother to me! Never stop being coached, my man.

Rest in the sweetest peace Grandpa. Friendships and family are everything.

Jeff Atkinson grew up in northern New Hampshire, and is currently located in Waltham, MA with his fiancé Lauren and 1.5-year-old red lab named Bogey! He currently works in the tech/finance industry. When he is not working, he can be found teaching/playing golf all across New England, traveling as much as he can.

Posted in Children's Program , JBBBS Blogs

I got involved as a Big Brother in November 2020. I was drawn towards being a Big because of past experiences volunteering up and down the east coast from Massachusetts to Florida when I was traveling as a PGA Golf Professional. The feeling of giving back is truly something exceptional, and I needed that back in my life. I decided it was time to get involved again and, after doing some digging, JBBBS’s mission and impact “JBBBS is transforming lives of children, adults with disabilities and their families through the power of one-to-one relationships.” resonated profoundly with me.

JBBBS Camp Scholarships: Making magical summers for our kids

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 21:09:00 GMT

by Joan Blackman

Camp is often out of reach for many of the children and teens in our program because it can be so expensive. The money JBBBS awards to its campers helps defray those costs, and can be the dividing line between going or not. For the Littles in our program, it’s hard to put a price on what the scholarship means to them.

Or to us at JBBBS, for that matter; one of our greatest rewards are the testimonials we receive from the campers, their families, and Clinical Match Specialists at the close of the camp session. In the words of one camper, “My favorite part of camp was just hanging out with my friends. I barely talked to anybody or left my house during COVID, so it was really, really great just to be around other kids. I got to try white water rafting and I even finally learned to swim!” Whether it’s being away from home for the first time, making friends from other communities, learning new skills or fostering existing passions, these affirmations are, as Program Director Laura Shulman-Brochstein said in response to one last year, “everything”.

On a personal level, I can deeply relate to the financial position many of our families find themselves in. At age 12, after a sudden change in family circumstances, camp was no longer an option for me. I had an older brother and sister, though, who attended camp over several years, and I recall how much they loved it. I saw how deep and lasting the connections can be. My brother still stays in touch with friends from all those years ago, and has his jacket from “Alton,” a camp which, with stories having passed from one generation to another, holds that “special place” in our family’s lore.

The summers without camp were long ones for me, so it’s especially rewarding to be in a position where I can help make sure that many of the kids in our program have memorable and magical experiences at camp. In the work I do today, I think of all the “Littles” who participate in our amazing scholarship program, and if they say, at summer’s end, “the time at camp flew by” followed by “I can’t wait to go back,” then we have done our job. Thank you to our donors for making this investment and helping to create memories.

Joan’s career began in Retail Management. In recent years, her involvement with causes related to at-needs children led to her transition from the corporate to non-profit sector, and to an opportunity to serve the JBBBS team in their mission. Joan holds a Bachelor’s Degree from Brandeis University, where she also discovered a love for writing. That continues to this day, as does a passion for reading and political discourse. She cherishes her family, not only her husband and daughter, but also her three siblings, one of whom provides an excuse for travel to Israel.

Posted in JBBBS Blogs , JBBBS Scholarships

Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters (JBBBS) is very fortunate to have donors who understand how important it is for every child to have an opportunity to attend camp and who have supported our JBBBS Camp Scholarship Fund over the years. In my role as Scholarship Specialist at JBBBS, I work with families, camps and JBBBS leadership to ensure many of our Littles are able to attend camp.

The lifelong benefits of summer camp are well-documented; ask any adult about their camp experiences, and a flood of memories usually follows. Associated with the freedom of summer and all that it brings, these camp memories occupy a special place, distinct from the remembrances of school, sports, and other extracurricular activities.

My Inspiring Friend 2 Friend Match

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 20:16:00 GMT

by Shiri Frydrich-Barniv and Faith Hoffman

In February 2020, I was working full-time in a High-Tech company, with two young kids, a husband who works 24×7, and a home to manage. I thought it would be hard to find the time to volunteer. Then, I found that JBBBS offers a plethora of volunteering opportunities that are very flexible and manageable – yet meaningful – even for a busy working mom!

I was excited to be matched with Faith Hoffman, a long-time JBBBS and Friend 2 Friend member. I was happy to find out that we not only shared the same age, love for Italian food as well as coffee & donuts, and traveling to Israel, but we are also both quite stubborn when it comes to achieving what we want. Even though Faith was diagnosed with Epilepsy at the age of 4 and has some other disabilities, that never stopped her from “doing things on her own” and leading a full and meaningful life! She attended college for 3 years (Bunker Hill Community College), achieved a para-librarian certification, obtained a manicuring license, and had been working and volunteering in many synagogues in the Boston and Concord areas.

Since COVID, volunteering and work opportunities for Faith became almost extinct. However, true to her character, this situation hasn’t deterred her from staying active and caring for others – she’s been keeping herself busy with ‘Having a Voice Boston,’ a group she established in November 2013 with the help of JBBBS and her parents.

Having a Voice Boston is dedicated to people from all walks of life. Faith’s goal was to create a group for people with mild disabilities, helping them become more independent, providing them social and educational opportunities, and providing them a place where their voice – which is too often ignored – can be heard. As Faith said best, she “…felt that many of the organizations did not meet the needs of the people (with disabilities). They did not let them think for themselves or do things that allowed their social ability to come through. Independence is very important for learning. We all need help, and it is out there if people will take the time to care about one another.” Her dedication and ongoing work to assist others and impact their lives in a positive way has been a constant inspiration for me! (You can learn more about Having a Voice Boston at https://www.jewishboston.com/organization/having-a-voice/ ).

Whether it’s just talking via a phone-call or zoom meeting, or meeting in person for a cup of coffee, or going together to a JBBBS event, I’m happy to keep our connection and friendship going and be there for Faith as an extra ear to listen and offer support. The benefits and inspiration for me are clear, and as Faith stated to me, she too highly recommends that any person with a disability explore the F2F program and the JBBBS organization because it can improve one’s social life in many ways.

F2F and my connection with Faith made me realize that people can still rise above great challenges and be there for someone else and brighten their lives, even if just a bit. Follow Faith’s recommendation – “get involved, it is good for you and look at the good you can do for others.”

Posted in Friend 2 Friend , JBBBS Blogs

“Get involved, it is good for you and look at the good you can do for others.”

JBBBS Blog – A Superpowered Connection

Fri, 14 Jan 2022 15:09:00 GMT

by Jake Rubin

My Little and I talk a lot about how creative our minds can be and how our ADHD can actually be a superpower. I cherish the time we spend together, and it warms my heart to hear him beg his mother to stay longer or frantically ask what I’m up to next weekend to make plans. I’ve learned as much about myself as I hope my Little has learned from me. I find myself telling him stories that I don’t always share with others – things only those of us with ADHD brains understand. Our relationship only began a year ago but we’ve had so many adventures from skiing and skate parks to apple picking and Patriots games – with much more on the horizon.

My match story is just a small part of what happens at JBBBS. The relationship I’ve developed with my Little inspired me to get even more involved by joining the Board of Directors this Fall. The more I learn the more I’ve leaned in. JBBBS has been on this mission for 100+ years and continues to impress me with its innovative and progressive approach to expanding its impact in the community. It’s a privilege and an honor to be a part of it, and we’re just getting started!

Jake Rubin works at Medidata, a Dassault Systèmes Company developing innovative healthcare technology products to accelerate the drug development process. In his free time, he is an avid squash player, skier, hiker, Marvel superhero nerd, and music lover. Jake is proud to not only serve on the Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters Board of Directors, but is also thrilled to volunteer as a Big in JBBBS’ Children’s program.

Posted in Children's Program , JBBBS Blogs

There are many ways to measure one’s success in life. To me, the most important measure is the impact we have on others. Hearing the heart wrenching stories about what kids have been going through during this pandemic made me realize it was time for me to do something about it. I became a Big in the hopes that I could be a friend to one of the many children who were isolated by remote learning, cancelled extracurriculars, and struggling with the many stresses we have all faced the past 20 months.

JBBBS has given me a great gift, the opportunity to build a genuine relationship with a young person in need of a mentor and friend.

I was diagnosed with ADHD in 7th grade. Looking back, I wish someone had helped me realize that ADHD could be a unique advantage instead of a hindrance – a fact I didn’t appreciate until college. As a ‘Big’ at JBBBS, I’m proud to be that support system for my Little who, like I did, struggles with the feelings of inadequacy that can come with ADHD – school work takes you longer than it takes your friends and even when you want to concentrate it can feel impossible.

“I’ve learned as much about myself as I hope my Little has learned from me. I find myself telling him stories that I don’t always share with others – things only those of us with ADHD brains understand.”

Launching our Littles into Young Adulthood – JBBBS’ New College Mentoring Program

Tue, 04 Jan 2022 14:42:00 GMT

by Jenny George

At 18, many of our Littles are ready to launch into young adulthood and take the next step on their educational or career journeys. It has historically been a natural time for matches to graduate from JBBBS. However, it has increasingly become evident that for some Littles in our program, this time of “launch” is a significant transition where continued mentorship and support would be highly beneficial.

This is particularly true for students from lower-income households, or who may be the first in their family to attend college in the U.S., or who may have above-average support needs. In fact, national statistics highlight that as many as 89% of first-generation students do not receive a degree or credential and nearly a third of college freshman drop out before their sophomore year. Contributing factors to this dropout rate include financial burdens, challenges navigating new academic demands in an unfamiliar institutional structure, and a lack of meaningful connections on campus. On the flip side, research has shown that at risk youth with a mentor are 55% more likely to enroll in college than peers without a mentor.

With these statistics and an unwavering belief in the power of mentorship, JBBBS is extremely excited to launch our new College Mentoring program backed by a generous grant from the Cummings Foundation.

This new program will seek to improve the college experience and graduation outcomes of previously underserved populations through mentorship. By building on our foundation of creating meaningful, one-to-one relationships, JBBBS will provide qualifying students with the practical and social-emotional support of mentors who will act as guides and personal champions as they navigate the path to college, through college, and ultimately to their career of choice. Bolstered by both our well-established college scholarship program, as well as a partnership with the local Campus Bound organization, which will provide Mentees with a one-to-one college counselor and guidance through the financial aid process, JBBBS’ new platform aims to give students the support and tools to identify and fulfill their own personal definition of collegiate “success”, whatever that may look like.

As I transition into my new role of Director of College Mentoring at JBBBS (while continuing to work part-time in the Children’s Program), I am honored and thrilled to have the opportunity to continue to work with the amazing and committed JBBBS volunteers who are interested in a more goal-oriented mentoring experience, and with our college bound youth as they become young adults navigating a new course forward. I have no doubt the extension of JBBBS’ services to this new age group at a pivotal time of transition will have a far-reaching impact.

Questions about College Mentoring at JBBBS or know somebody who might be interested in becoming a Mentee or Mentor? Contact jenny@jbbbs.org .

Posted in Children's Program , JBBBS Blogs

As a longtime social worker in the Children’s Program, I have seen firsthand the incredible impact made in the collaboration between JBBBS, Bigs, Littles, and their families. In our Children’s program for kids up to 18 years old, one-to-one mentoring is paired with other wraparound services, including emergency financial assistance, referrals, and scholarships to both camp and college in order to further support families and help set youth up for success, happiness, and wellbeing. This holistic model has been effective and impactful for our school-aged and adolescent clients. But what of the youth who graduate from JBBBS programming?

JBBBS is committed to changing lives through connection. For over 100 years this agency has specialized in making meaningful matches that enrich the lives of participants and often change the trajectory of their lives.

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JBBBS Blog – The Dynamic Duo

Thu, 16 Dec 2021 07:56:00 GMT

by Greg Signer

After meeting Jordan, we immediately clicked. Jordan was a happy kid who loves his mother dearly and whose father is not living in Massachusetts. He has many friends, participates in many after school sports and has an active social life. After a few visits, I asked myself, why does this kid need a Big? A lesson that would become clear over time. Once we developed a trust with one another, Jordan and I began to have more meaningful conversations about what was going on in both of our lives. After learning more about Jordan, it became evident why I had agreed to participate in the JBBBS program. I realized that this relationship was meant to fill a void in both of our lives and that the match would be mutually beneficial.

Jordan loves anything basketball related and is a HUGE Celtics fan. I recall our first outing was to a basketball court where he proceeded to wipe me up and down the court. He was a good player and has only improved over the last three years. We have done a lot together and shared experiences that both of us enjoy. In addition to many one-on-one basketball games, we have been to trampoline parks, go-carting, played video games (where he kicked my butt), explored the New England Aquarium, went to the movies, out to dinner, and of course, attended Celtics games. My favorite activity has been attending some of his basketball games and watching him play and improve his craft over time. Did I mention he is a REALLY good basketball player??? Well, he is!

During COVID, it was difficult to see each other as often as we once did but we made the best of things. We did some outdoor activities and socially distanced including taking a walk together at Elm Bank Reservation, an outdoor BBQ, and simple things like going for an ice cream at Dairy Queen.

This past month, I had the privilege to attend Jordan’s Bar Mitzvah. This was an event that we had been speaking of since the match began. Not surprising, he did amazing and made everyone proud. As I sat in the sanctuary watching him recite his Haftorah, I was reminded about all the experiences that we have shared over the years and how much he has grown and matured since we met. At the party that evening, I had the opportunity to meet some of Jordan’s extended family including his maternal grandmother and grandfather. In speaking with them, it was apparent that they were as proud of Jordan as I was about his accomplishments.

Jordan has had a significant influence on my life, and I hope that our relationship has been impactful to him as well. As he continues to grow and starts high school soon, I realize that the frequency of our meetings may be fewer, but I feel certain that our connection will not diminish. I hope that we will always keep in touch so that I can see him continue to grow and see the man and father that he will become. I only hope that I have had some positive role in his accomplishments. I consider Jordan not only my Little, but he is also a friend!

Greg Signer grew up in Hollywood, Florida and attended Florida State University, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Human Resources. He met his wife, Lynn, 5 1/2 years ago which brought him to Needham. A big change for a Florida guy! Greg has been working in the Property management Industry for over thirty years and really enjoys it. He currently works at Greystar Real Estate Partners where he is a managing Director of Operations. In his free time, Greg enjoys exploring New England with his wife and new puppy, Cooper, watching football and playing poker.

Posted in Children's Program

In 2017, I relocated from Florida to Needham to get married and start a new life here. Once settled, I learned about Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters through some friends who had previously been Bigs in the Children’s Program. I had some additional free time and wanted to give back to a child who did not have a male figure in their lives so I contacted JBBBS to learn more. After some extensive information gathering and learning more about the program, I decided to take the leap and agree to become a Big.

Within weeks, I received a call from Jenny George, one of JBBBS’ Clinical Match Specialists who was working with a 10-year-old boy and his mother. Jenny proceeded to give me some background and as they say, she had me at hello! I was elated and could not wait to meet Jordan, my new Little.

JBBBS Blog – Stories That Inspire

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 13:10:00 GMT

by Jeffrey Savit

To kick off the blog, I wanted to share my own JBBBS story – one that started more than 28 years ago when I applied to be a Big myself. It turned out that I unfortunately was not eligible as my wife was then pregnant with my older daughter Mollie. At the time, expectant parents or parents of children under age 18 were ineligible to volunteer as a Big. Happily, however, the agency recruited me to be on the Board and the rest is history. I have spent the last nearly 30 years involved in the agency – first as a volunteer, then as board chair of both the agency and our endowment, and now as a member of our wonderful staff– and have treasured every moment.

I am thrilled that my JBBBS story has come full circle as this past year I finally became a JBBBS volunteer in the Friend 2 Friend program . I am matched with my Friend, Brad, who has quickly become a really important part of my life. Together, we enjoy lunches, go on walks, play mini golf and share a love of sports. There’s not a week that goes by that we don’t talk to one another. My life is enriched by my monthly outings with Brad.

So, while my almost 30-year journey with JBBBS may not be typical, the impact our agency has, and the stories I hear, never cease to amaze me. There is no debate: one-on-one relationships have a transformational impact on everyone involved. I look forward to sharing our JBBBS stories with you in the months ahead and to experience yours as well.

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As the CEO of Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters (JBBBS), one of the parts of my job that I cherish the most is getting to talk to our participants, families, volunteers and staff and hear their stories

I am thrilled that our new blog will be a platform for all of you to get to hear these stories, too. Over the coming months, various members of our JBBBS family – participants, volunteers, staff, and board members – will all be sharing their own JBBBS stories and contributing to the blog. And, I hope you will be as inspired by them as I already am.

“There is no debate: one-on-one relationships have a transformational impact on everyone involved”